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Community Health Volunteer's Training Manual - Population Council

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Conflict Prernclonnt MnMarernctMnnt reoolclon<br />

Again some also think conflicts are bad for a group of people or team because it represents a<br />

form of deviant behaviour and therefore must be changed or controlled.<br />

Conflicts like change are an integral part of all organisations. It is important for us to accept<br />

that they will occur and that no matter what we do, we cannot completely eliminate it.<br />

Rather as members of a team we should use it to improve the performance and achievements<br />

of our teams.<br />

Let me state that, the fact that you have conflict as a team of volunteers does not mean you<br />

have failed. Neither does it mean that people should judge you negatively because there has<br />

been a conflict. Neither should you be denied promotion and praise, because of the previous<br />

conflict.<br />

Conflicts rather help to bring about change in an organisation by bringing in new and fresh<br />

ideas. Again in our social relations, conflicts occur because each of us is coming into the<br />

relationship with our own psychological needs. And because we want these needs met in the<br />

relationship in a particular way, which may not be known to the other party, conflicts occur.<br />

Take marriage for example. While women may want to be loved and cared for, men go into<br />

marriage wanting a woman who will serve and submit to them. Interestingly, some couples<br />

do not know the expectations with which a partner is coming into the relationship. When<br />

these needs are not met, conflicts may arise and could lead to the dissolution of the marriage.<br />

Thus opposing views, behaviours and individual differences are the major causes of conflicts<br />

in most groups and organisations.<br />

Exercise 1.5.2 Writing<br />

Objective<br />

1. To test the perceptions of male and<br />

female on relationships between the<br />

two.<br />

Time: 20 minutes<br />

Questions<br />

1. How many people wrote WOMAN,<br />

WITHOUT HER, MAN IS USELESS<br />

2. How many people wrote WOMAN,<br />

WITHOUT HER MAN IS USELESS<br />

3. How many men wrote statement (1)?<br />

4. How many women wrote statement<br />

(2)?<br />

5. What does this tell you about<br />

perceptions.<br />

Instructions to the Facilitator<br />

NB: This activity is not useful for<br />

those who cannot read and write<br />

1. Cut pieces of paper and distribute<br />

to participants<br />

2. Boldly display the sentence<br />

WOMAN WITHOUT HER MAN IS<br />

USELESS<br />

3. Ask participants to punctuate the<br />

sentence by writing their answers<br />

on the piece of paper<br />

4. Go round and take the paper<br />

yourself and write (M or F) at the<br />

back indicating Male and Female<br />

5. Collect and analyse the results and<br />

discuss<br />

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