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The health <strong>of</strong> family members The involved perception in the <strong>of</strong> migration labour migration process<br />

quency <strong>of</strong> symptoms, severity, duration <strong>and</strong> extent <strong>of</strong> their manifestation),<br />

the dise<strong>as</strong>e can evolve to a much more serious form <strong>and</strong> sometimes the<br />

consequences can be irreversible.<br />

Premature maturation <strong>of</strong> the <strong>children</strong> who are <strong>as</strong>signed multiple responsibilities<br />

by their parents who migrated, hyperbolize somehow their selfconfidence.<br />

We encountered situations where minors, relying only on<br />

their own experience, try to “treat” their little brother/sister or to selftreat.<br />

The danger <strong>of</strong> this may be felt in the firm belief <strong>of</strong> a girl aged 14<br />

who takes care <strong>of</strong> her sister aged 7 <strong>and</strong> her sick gr<strong>and</strong>mother: “I already<br />

know what to do... <strong>and</strong> I know what pills to buy, I’m doing fine” (III_C_<br />

28). A similar confidence can be noticed in a boy aged only 13: “I live<br />

with my elder sister <strong>and</strong> brother... I usually have headaches. I have intracranial<br />

pressure <strong>and</strong> I need a treatment. I buy magnesium <strong>and</strong> other things<br />

<strong>and</strong> my brother <strong>and</strong> sister help me observe all symptoms” (III_C_5). The<br />

possibility <strong>of</strong> poisoning, adverse reactions or complications due to<br />

the misuse <strong>of</strong> drugs, without parental monitoring can have very serious<br />

consequences for these <strong>children</strong>’s health.<br />

The migration <strong>of</strong> parents, without them making the tutelage responsibilities<br />

<strong>of</strong>ficial for the person they leave their child with, can create<br />

dangers for their <strong>children</strong> in the c<strong>as</strong>e <strong>of</strong> medical emergencies.<br />

According to the legislation, any intervention should be undertaken<br />

only with the parent’s/guardian’s consent. In the absence <strong>of</strong> parents, if<br />

there is no legal guardianship act, no person can <strong>as</strong>sume responsibility<br />

for that decision. The absence <strong>of</strong> parents <strong>and</strong> lack <strong>of</strong> any guardianship<br />

documents complicates the procedure <strong>of</strong> granting medical care<br />

for the child, especially when there is need for inv<strong>as</strong>ive intervention.<br />

Such c<strong>as</strong>es have been reported during focus groups discussions: “The<br />

mother went abroad <strong>and</strong> <strong>left</strong> two <strong>children</strong>... One <strong>of</strong> them got sick <strong>and</strong><br />

needed to have a complicated surgery <strong>and</strong> the doctors could not do it<br />

until they had the signature <strong>of</strong> his mother agreeing on that surgery. Now<br />

that w<strong>as</strong> a real problem! She finally made the documents from Italy for<br />

<strong>as</strong>signing guardianship to some <strong>elderly</strong>, they signed the documents <strong>and</strong><br />

the child w<strong>as</strong> saved” (FG_ EC_rural).<br />

A gynaecologist, working in a municipal medical institution told us a<br />

c<strong>as</strong>e where a teenager <strong>of</strong> 16 years old came in for an examination. It<br />

w<strong>as</strong> determined that she had a 5-6 weeks pregnancy. The young woman<br />

requested an abortion. She w<strong>as</strong> a student at a municipal school, living<br />

at home <strong>and</strong> her financial situation w<strong>as</strong> precarious. The teenager’s<br />

parents had been working abroad for many years <strong>and</strong> she w<strong>as</strong> living<br />

with her old <strong>and</strong> sick aunt who lived in a village in southern <strong>Moldova</strong>.<br />

There were no guardianship documents for this relative. According to<br />

<strong>Moldova</strong>n law, the teenager is considered a minor <strong>and</strong> the gynaecolo-<br />

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