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Six: Leadership Styles<br />

sanitary environment is a key standard for more productivity. Do you<br />

agree or see it diff erently?”<br />

If they decide to take part <strong>in</strong> a competitive situation, they’ll probably do<br />

it as they do other tasks—bit by bit—until they do it right. Unlike their<br />

colleagues who may show enthusiasm at the beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g, Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>kers<br />

oft en show the patience and follow-through to ultimately w<strong>in</strong>—if they<br />

perceive the contest as worthwhile and don’t become too preoccupied<br />

with details along the way. Whereas some people focus on w<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g shorter-term<br />

battles, the Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>ker is motivated by the ultimate sense of<br />

last<strong>in</strong>g personal glory derived from triumph<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the overall war.<br />

Compliment<strong>in</strong>g Cautious Th<strong>in</strong>kers<br />

Mention their effi ciency, thought processes, organization, persistence,<br />

and accuracy. Don’t mix personal and professional comments unless you<br />

know them very well. Even then, they prefer more privately communicated,<br />

plausible praise. “Jeff ries, you were so thorough on this project<br />

that we had every shred of <strong>in</strong>formation we needed—and then some just<br />

<strong>in</strong> case we required a safety net. Th anks aga<strong>in</strong> for another good job!”<br />

One C told us, “Compliments don’t mean much to me. I really don’t<br />

th<strong>in</strong>k about them. But I do like genu<strong>in</strong>e, heartfelt appreciation once<br />

<strong>in</strong> awhile, like, “You did a fi ne job,” or, “I’ve really benefi ted from your<br />

work and so have others who have told me about your contributions.”<br />

In other words, keep praise simple and concise for a Cautious Th <strong>in</strong>ker.<br />

He went on to say that what he th<strong>in</strong>ks about some accomplishment is<br />

much more important to him. “I’m hard on myself.”<br />

Counsel<strong>in</strong>g Cautious Th<strong>in</strong>kers<br />

Elicit their thoughts about processes, procedures or problems, perhaps<br />

by ask<strong>in</strong>g someth<strong>in</strong>g like, “If it were <strong>in</strong> your power, how would<br />

you change this to make th<strong>in</strong>gs even better?” Like Steady Relaters, they<br />

oft en express their thoughts and op<strong>in</strong>ions <strong>in</strong>directly, so persist <strong>in</strong> your

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