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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXFreud remarks) essentially an impulse <strong>of</strong> curiosity, whichsome mothers unfortunately repress and so drive <strong>in</strong> andunduly emphasize. Here are the most "curious" parts <strong>of</strong>the body, the parts (with f<strong>in</strong>gers and toes) that for achild are most like playth<strong>in</strong>gs. This <strong>in</strong>terest may lead onto pleasurable sensation, but for most children it wouldappear that what may be regarded as <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation isoutside the genital sphere, be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation <strong>of</strong> thethreshold, that is to say sensation <strong>of</strong> a k<strong>in</strong>d that would<strong>in</strong> an adult lie on the threshold <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual sphere andlead up to it (thus legitimately belong<strong>in</strong>g to the art olove)The difference is that such sensations <strong>in</strong> the child,.while pleasurable, do not usually pass over the threshold<strong>of</strong> the actual <strong>sex</strong>ual sensation.Such phenomena are <strong>in</strong> the first place most usually<strong>in</strong> the oral region. This we should expect, as the mostacute pleasure <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>fant could scarcely failto be derivedfrom the sensitive lips <strong>of</strong> the mouth <strong>in</strong> contact withthe milk-yield<strong>in</strong>g nipple <strong>of</strong> the mother. S<strong>in</strong>ce the nioutliis an erogenic or <strong>sex</strong>ually stimulat<strong>in</strong>g zone <strong>in</strong> adult lifewe cannot be surprised that it should be a pleasure-centeron the <strong>sex</strong>ual threshold even <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>fancy. Thumb-suck<strong>in</strong>gsometimes becomes a substitute for nipple-suck<strong>in</strong>g whenit is unatta<strong>in</strong>able or outgrown; it is held by some althoughthe op<strong>in</strong>ion is disputed by numerous authoritiesthat <strong>in</strong> predisposed children this may be a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> masturbationand later lead on to ord<strong>in</strong>ary masturbation. It is apractice found among a considerable and vary<strong>in</strong>g proportion<strong>of</strong> young children <strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es and may even beg<strong>in</strong>immediately after birth.Only second to the emergence <strong>of</strong> the oral center isprobablythe anal center. As long as the motions are passedautomatically and without restra<strong>in</strong>t there is little opportunityfor the anal region to become a pleasure center.[86]

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