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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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THE BIOLOGY OF SEXattractions he has experienced. It isunnecessary to emphasizethe existence <strong>of</strong> this factor, which has always to betaken <strong>in</strong>to account <strong>in</strong> every consideration <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual selection<strong>in</strong> civilized man. But its variations are numerous, and<strong>in</strong> impassioned lovers it may even lead to the idealization<strong>of</strong> features which are <strong>in</strong> reality the reverse <strong>of</strong> beautiful.We here approach the field <strong>of</strong> morbid <strong>sex</strong>ual deviations.It is thus that we have to recognize another factor <strong>in</strong>the constitution <strong>of</strong> the ideal <strong>of</strong> beauty, one perhaps exclu*sively found under civilized conditions: the love <strong>of</strong> theunusual, the remote, the exotic. It iscommonly statedthat rarity is admired <strong>in</strong> beauty. This isnot strictly true,except as regards comb<strong>in</strong>ations and characters which varyonly <strong>in</strong> a slight degree from the generally admired type."Jucundum nihil estquod non reficit variatas" accord<strong>in</strong>gto an ancient say<strong>in</strong>g. The greater nervous restlessness andsensitivity <strong>of</strong> civilization heightens this tendency, which isnot <strong>in</strong>frequently found also among men <strong>of</strong> artistic genius.In every great center <strong>of</strong> civilization the national ideal<strong>of</strong> beauty tends to be somewhat modified <strong>in</strong> exotic directions,and foreign ideals, as well as foreign fashions, becomepreferred to those that are native.Beauty, if thus the chief, is not the sole, element <strong>in</strong> the<strong>sex</strong>ual appeal <strong>of</strong> vision. In all parts <strong>of</strong> the world this hasbeen well understood, and <strong>in</strong> courtship, <strong>in</strong> the effort toarouse tumescence, the appeals to vision have been multipliedand at the same time aided by other secondaryappeals.Thus we have scoptophilia (mixoscopia) or the <strong>sex</strong>ualexcitement aroused by the sight <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual scenes, or evensimply <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual organs <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. To someextent this is entirely normal, its shamefaced manifestationsbe<strong>in</strong>g simply due to the rigid conventional secrecy<strong>in</strong> which the naked body is held. Many estimable men[73]

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