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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXnot be possible <strong>in</strong> this way to elim<strong>in</strong>ate the mentally unfitelement <strong>in</strong> the population.It would only be a beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g.In regard to this subject there is still much need forthe spread <strong>of</strong> enlightenment.An equally common problemispresented with regardto the frequency <strong>of</strong> coitus. Very widely divergent viewsare dogmatically set forth on this po<strong>in</strong>t. Some personsconsider it normal and necessary to have <strong>in</strong>tercourse everynight, and they cont<strong>in</strong>ue this practice for many years withno obvious bad results. Others assert that <strong>in</strong>tercourseshould never be practiced except for the end <strong>of</strong> procreation,which might mean only two or three times <strong>in</strong> a lifetime,and they argue that such a practiceis alone naturaland moral. It is undoubtedly true that this is the only end<strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>tercourse <strong>of</strong> animals, but <strong>in</strong> determ<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g what isnatural for man we are not entitled to consider the practice<strong>of</strong> the animals belong<strong>in</strong>g to remote genera. We haveto consider the general practice<strong>of</strong> the human specieswhich by no means shows so narrowly exclusive an aim<strong>in</strong> procreation, although unspoiled uncivilized peoples areon the whole (contrary to a common assumption) muchmore <strong>sex</strong>ually abst<strong>in</strong>ent than civilized peoples. But evenif it were not so we are quite justified <strong>in</strong> depart<strong>in</strong>g, if weth<strong>in</strong>k fit, from the habits <strong>of</strong> the lower races. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly the<strong>sex</strong>ual organs were developed for procreation, not for the<strong>sex</strong>ual gratification <strong>of</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dividual; certa<strong>in</strong>ly also thehands were developed to serve nutrition, not to play onthe piano or the viol<strong>in</strong>. But if the <strong>in</strong>dividual can f<strong>in</strong>d joyand <strong>in</strong>spiration <strong>in</strong> us<strong>in</strong>g his organs for ends they were notmade for, he isfollow<strong>in</strong>g a course <strong>of</strong> action which,whether or not we choose to call it "natural," is perfectlyand moral. Those who advocate imitation <strong>of</strong>justifiablethe lower animals by conf<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse to the"natural" end <strong>of</strong> procreation, are also bound to imitate

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