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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> real life. It is, <strong>of</strong> course, fostered by <strong>sex</strong>ual abst<strong>in</strong>ence.Most usually there is little attempt to realize it. It doesnot necessarily lead to masturbation, thoughit sometimescauses some <strong>sex</strong>ual congestion or even spontaneous <strong>sex</strong>ualorgasm.The day-dreamis a strictly private and <strong>in</strong>timate experience,not only from its very nature, but also becauseit occurs <strong>in</strong> images which the subject f<strong>in</strong>ds great difficulty<strong>in</strong> translat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to language, even when will<strong>in</strong>g to do so.In other cases it is elaborately dramatic or romantic <strong>in</strong>character, die hero or hero<strong>in</strong>e pass<strong>in</strong>g through manyexperiences before atta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g the erotic climax <strong>of</strong> the story.This climax tends to develop <strong>in</strong> harmony with the subject'sgrow<strong>in</strong>g knowledge or experience; at first merely akiss, it may develop <strong>in</strong>to any ref<strong>in</strong>ement <strong>of</strong> voluptuousThe gratification. day-dream may occur alike <strong>in</strong> normaland abnormal persons. Rousseau, <strong>in</strong> his Confessions, describessuch dreams, <strong>in</strong> his case comb<strong>in</strong>ed with masochismand masturbation. Raffalovich refers to the process bywhich <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>verts the vision <strong>of</strong> a person <strong>of</strong> the same<strong>sex</strong>, perhaps seen <strong>in</strong> the street or the theater, is evoked <strong>in</strong>solitary reveries, produc<strong>in</strong>g a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> "psychic onamsm,"whether or not it leads on to physical manifestations.Although day-dream<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d has until recenttimes been little studied, s<strong>in</strong>ce it loves secrecy and solitude,and has seldom been counted <strong>of</strong> sufficient <strong>in</strong>terest forscientific it is<strong>in</strong>quisition, really a process ^ f considerableimportance, and occupies a large part <strong>of</strong> the auto-eroticfield. It is frequently cultivated by ref<strong>in</strong>ed and imag<strong>in</strong>ativeyoung men and women who lead a chaste life andwould <strong>of</strong>ten be repelled by masturbation. In such persons,under such .circumstances, it must be considered as strictlynormal, the <strong>in</strong>evitable outcome <strong>of</strong> the play <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse. <strong>No</strong> doubt itmay <strong>of</strong>ten become morbid, and is[no]

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