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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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CHAPTER IVSEXUAL DEVIATION AND THE EROTICSYMBOLISMSSexual DeviationsIT was formerly taken for granted by all writers on thelife <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> that there is but one pattern for that life, andthat any stray<strong>in</strong>g from that one pattern was not "normal.'*This was assumed and never discussed. There seemedeven to be no need to def<strong>in</strong>e precisely what this s<strong>in</strong>glepattern was; every one was supposed to know <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctively.As soon as we beg<strong>in</strong> to <strong>in</strong>quire <strong>in</strong>to the actual and <strong>in</strong>timatefacts <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual life, however, we see that thisancient and traditional assumption was mistaken. So farfrom there be<strong>in</strong>g only one pattern <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>-life, it would benearer the truth to say that there are as many patterns asthere are <strong>in</strong>dividuals. At the least there are a number <strong>of</strong>types <strong>of</strong> patterns to one or other <strong>of</strong> which the <strong>in</strong>dividualtends more or less, never exactly, to approximate. Thishas been visible to me ever s<strong>in</strong>ce Ibegan to study <strong>sex</strong>ualpsychology, and I have sought to make clear that here, aselsewhere <strong>in</strong> nature, we have to admit a wide limit <strong>of</strong>variations fall<strong>in</strong>g with<strong>in</strong> the normal range. Today this isgradually be<strong>in</strong>g recognized by experienced observers. Toquote but one dist<strong>in</strong>guished gynecologist, Dick<strong>in</strong>son expresses"a grow<strong>in</strong>g skepticism about a fixed pattern <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>."In order to rema<strong>in</strong> with<strong>in</strong> the normal range, all variationsmust at some po<strong>in</strong>t <strong>in</strong>clude the procreative end for

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