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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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CHAPTER VIIICONCLUSIONThe Dynamic Nature <strong>of</strong> The Sexual ImpulseUNDER the ord<strong>in</strong>ary conditions o social life, as we knowit <strong>in</strong> civilization, there are three ma<strong>in</strong> channels alongwhich we may direct the energy o the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse:(i) We may avoid all overt manifestations, leav<strong>in</strong>g theimpulse to expend its dynamic energy along whateverpaths, normal or abnormal, the organism may lend itselfto; (2)We may be content with temporary or merelycasual <strong>sex</strong>ual relationships, <strong>of</strong> which prostitutionis thefamiliar type; (3) We may enter on marriage, that is tosay, a <strong>sex</strong>ual relationship set up with the <strong>in</strong>tention <strong>of</strong>,possible, mak<strong>in</strong>g it permanent, and <strong>in</strong>volv<strong>in</strong>g a community<strong>of</strong> more than <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>terests. There can be nodoubt whatever that whatever one's religion or moralpr<strong>in</strong>ciples may be or even <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> any thisthird condition, even <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> children, leads tothe richest and deepest life experience.But while it is the best path, it is without doubt adifficult path. Indeed, as we have seen, the whole path <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual activity, and not only for the neuropathic but evenfor the normal, is. beset with perils. This is <strong>in</strong> part due tothe comparatively late period at which the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse,as compared to the other impulses, undergoes full development,even though it may beg<strong>in</strong> early, <strong>in</strong> part to theperiodic and violent nature <strong>of</strong> the impulse, and <strong>in</strong> part,not the least part, to the rigid rules which religion, morals,[353]if

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