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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX<strong>in</strong> the male <strong>sex</strong> as some might desire. For many marriedcouples, however, itmay be said that it is only after thewife's menopause that marriage is f<strong>in</strong>ally achieved <strong>in</strong> itsfull sense as a happy and harmonious fellowship, eventhough it may sometimes seem to recall that <strong>of</strong> brotherand sister. There is no doubt about the <strong>in</strong>creased <strong>in</strong>tellectualactivity <strong>of</strong> women at this age and the activecareers <strong>of</strong> many women <strong>of</strong> dist<strong>in</strong>ction may only be said tohave begun after the <strong>sex</strong>ual reproductive period was over.There are, <strong>in</strong>deed, some women who at this time use their<strong>in</strong>creased activities <strong>in</strong> striv<strong>in</strong>g to <strong>in</strong>terfere with the activities<strong>of</strong> their grow<strong>in</strong>g-up children, especially to dom<strong>in</strong>atetheir daughters, if unmarried and still with<strong>in</strong> the homecircle;many lives have thus been blighted, and k<strong>in</strong>dlybut firm rebellion is here necessary; for if some suffer<strong>in</strong>gis <strong>in</strong>evitable it is better that the old should suffer thanthe young. But the wholesomely cultivated woman, while<strong>of</strong>ten devoted to her grandchildren, exercises her liberatedmaternal energies <strong>in</strong> the larger social world, which<strong>of</strong>fersendless scopefor wide moral and other activities.It is a debated question how far there can be said to beIf soany period <strong>in</strong> men correspond<strong>in</strong>g to the menopause.it is certa<strong>in</strong>ly vague, as <strong>in</strong>deed is sufficiently <strong>in</strong>dicated bythe fact that the sperm-secret<strong>in</strong>g function has no necessaryf<strong>in</strong>al term and may be cont<strong>in</strong>ued to advanced old age,even <strong>in</strong> one reported case to the age <strong>of</strong> 103. There are,however, times <strong>in</strong> a man's life when <strong>in</strong> some cases arecognition <strong>of</strong> a sudden turn <strong>in</strong> the road enters consciousnesswith disturb<strong>in</strong>g effect. S<strong>in</strong>ce Kurt Mendel calledattention to the po<strong>in</strong>t, such a phenomenon, correspond<strong>in</strong>gto the menopause <strong>in</strong> women, has been widely recognized,though Krafft-Eb<strong>in</strong>g and others have denied it. But even<strong>in</strong> ancient days a "grand climacteric" was recognized andplaced at the age <strong>of</strong> 63. We cannot, however, speak strictly

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