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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXshown <strong>in</strong> the child's equal or greater lik<strong>in</strong>g to suffer its<strong>in</strong>fliction. Games <strong>of</strong> "punishment" with much reciprocalsmack<strong>in</strong>g have always been privately popular among children<strong>of</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, perhaps especially girls, the hair-brush<strong>of</strong>ten be<strong>in</strong>g used for this purpose. Self-flagellation is alsosometimes practised,and even after puberty,when thegenital centers are fully active, may be jit adopted byeither <strong>sex</strong> to heighten the solitary pleasure <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualimpulse <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> a person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>.Day-drearns<strong>of</strong> torture are a not uncommon source <strong>of</strong>pleasure even among young children, and at a rather laterage one has heard <strong>of</strong> Foxe's Book <strong>of</strong> Martyrs prov<strong>in</strong>g asource <strong>of</strong> thrill<strong>in</strong>g delight. Sometimes the child experiencesan irresistible impulse to <strong>in</strong>flict pa<strong>in</strong> on himselfand <strong>of</strong>ten on his penis, which <strong>in</strong>dicates that, even if nota source <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual excitement <strong>in</strong> the adult sense, thepenis is already a center <strong>of</strong> emotional <strong>in</strong>terest. Such factsrecall the castration-complex to which some psycho-analystsattach enormous importance. A str<strong>in</strong>g may bestrongly tied round the penis; or it may even be violentlystruck; and the case has lately been recorded <strong>of</strong> a girl <strong>of</strong>n<strong>in</strong>e who tied a thread round her clitoris and was unableto remove it,so that surgical <strong>in</strong>terference became necessary.Sensation and emotion are still <strong>in</strong> a comparativelydiffused and as it were uncrystallized form. As the realization<strong>of</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> is so early necessary <strong>in</strong> life for self-preservationit is <strong>in</strong>evitable that pa<strong>in</strong>ful emotions should be those <strong>in</strong>which the stillvague pleasure impulses tend to take shape.all beHamilton found that among his subjects, who maysaid to be <strong>of</strong> high character and culture, only 49 per cent,men and 68 per cent, women never experience pleasure <strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>flict<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>; while nearly 30 percent, <strong>of</strong> both menand women had had pleasure <strong>in</strong> experienc<strong>in</strong>g pa<strong>in</strong>.How far we are here from adult isdevelopments shown[901

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