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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXbecome good lovers and a large proportion<strong>of</strong> womenconsequently rema<strong>in</strong>ed "frigid."to be apparently frigidThere are thus many reasons why women should tendunder the conditions <strong>of</strong> civilization,s<strong>in</strong>ce these conditions <strong>in</strong>volve pr<strong>of</strong>ound ignorance<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual matters <strong>in</strong> both <strong>sex</strong>es, bad education, prudery,and an abnormally late age for the commencement <strong>of</strong><strong>sex</strong>ual relationships.But when it is asserted that an absolute<strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia is common <strong>in</strong> women it is necessaryto remember that the questionis much more difficultand complicated <strong>in</strong> women than <strong>in</strong> men. Moreover, <strong>in</strong>women we have to dist<strong>in</strong>guish between the presence <strong>of</strong>libido and the presence <strong>of</strong> pleasure <strong>in</strong> coitus. The first<strong>of</strong> these may be present <strong>in</strong> the absence <strong>of</strong> the second, andeven when both are absent it cannot be affirmed that <strong>sex</strong>ualanaesthesia exists. It isperhaps significant that Hamil-<strong>of</strong> womenton found that a high proportion (55 per cent)with <strong>in</strong>ferior capacity for orgasm yet rateabove the average <strong>in</strong> <strong>sex</strong> desire.themselves asCases occur <strong>in</strong> which awoman is frigid with a succession <strong>of</strong> men but at last, perhaps<strong>in</strong> late middle age, the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse arises. Even ifit never occurs at all <strong>in</strong> coitus itmay be manifested <strong>in</strong>other forms, not merely <strong>in</strong> deviated activities, but alsothrough the medium <strong>of</strong> outly<strong>in</strong>g erogenous zones which<strong>in</strong> women are far more numerous than <strong>in</strong> men, and farmore apt to be stimulated.Thus it is much more difficult <strong>in</strong> a woman than <strong>in</strong> aman to affirm the presence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia. All wecan say <strong>in</strong> a particular case is that we have not yet discoveredthe form <strong>in</strong> which the woman's <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse ismanifested, or may <strong>in</strong> the future be manifested. EvenOtto Adler, who was confident concern<strong>in</strong>g the frequency<strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual anaesthesia <strong>in</strong> women, when he wished to br<strong>in</strong>gforward a f<strong>in</strong>al pro<strong>of</strong> <strong>of</strong> the existence <strong>of</strong> the "femme dc

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