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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXthough there is still dispute regard<strong>in</strong>g the best methods,and even the best (sterilization apart), whichever theymay be, are not always reliable. Fortunately birth controlcl<strong>in</strong>ics are ris<strong>in</strong>g up rapidly<strong>in</strong> various countries, and heremay be obta<strong>in</strong>ed practical help and advice, to the absence<strong>of</strong> which failure is <strong>of</strong>ten due among those who possessimperfect knowledge, though even with the best knowledgeit is frequently difficult to ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>variably thecare necessary for success. It is true that the most ancientand common <strong>of</strong> all methods <strong>of</strong> contraception, coitus <strong>in</strong>terruptus,or the method <strong>of</strong> Onan, requires no appliancesand is practiced without advice; and it is fairly certa<strong>in</strong>.But though not so generally harmful as is sometimes supposed,it is frequently unsatisfactory, for <strong>in</strong> most men it<strong>in</strong>volves undue haste, which isunpleasant for the husbandand apt to be <strong>in</strong>adequate for the wife who may needsatisfaction afterwards.A common problemis <strong>in</strong>deed presented by <strong>in</strong>terruptedcoitus. This practice is held by the best authorities to bethe commonest <strong>of</strong> allmethods <strong>of</strong> preventive <strong>in</strong>tercourse.It is also no doubt the most ancient and is referred to <strong>in</strong>the book <strong>of</strong> Genesis as be<strong>in</strong>g adopted by Onan <strong>in</strong> orderto avoid conception. Its popularity is due to its simplicity;it requires no forethought or preparation and it costsnoth<strong>in</strong>g. But there can be no doubt that, <strong>in</strong> relation tothe well-be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> the nervous system, the practice is sometimesopen to question. It is quite true that <strong>in</strong> deal<strong>in</strong>gwith a practice so extremely prevalent, it is not enoughto say that it is <strong>of</strong>ten found <strong>in</strong>jurious. But it is clear that,<strong>in</strong> a certa<strong>in</strong> proportion <strong>of</strong> cases, whether a large or asmall proportion,various m<strong>in</strong>or nervous conditions, <strong>in</strong>dicat<strong>in</strong>gnervous irritability,<strong>in</strong> the woman, the man, orboth, seem to be traceable to <strong>in</strong>terrupted <strong>in</strong>tercourse. It iseasily <strong>in</strong>telligible that this should be specially so as regards[288]

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