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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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MARRIAGEbuilt <strong>in</strong>to the structure <strong>of</strong> savagelife. A tissue <strong>of</strong> uses,<strong>of</strong>ten fanciful though even then still help<strong>in</strong>g to ennobleits exercise have been popularly or traditionally assignedto chastity among lower as well as higher races,"Yet, toa remarkable degree/' as Crawley well po<strong>in</strong>ted out, "atleast <strong>in</strong> primitive sociology, these uses, whatever theirpopular explanations, harmonize with biological facts,and the value <strong>of</strong> the explanations consists <strong>in</strong> hav<strong>in</strong>gassisted the plastic nervous organism <strong>of</strong> man towards selfcontrol,<strong>in</strong>telligent liv<strong>in</strong>g, and general <strong>in</strong>dividual andsocial efficiency." If carried too far, as Crawley also po<strong>in</strong>tedout, dis<strong>in</strong>tegration tends to follow; but the ma<strong>in</strong> processcont<strong>in</strong>ues, hav<strong>in</strong>g as its goal, "after many experiments,slowly but surely, a scientific development <strong>of</strong> that primalnatural chastity with which man's <strong>sex</strong>ual history began."That fundamental fact tends to be obscured preciselybecause <strong>of</strong> the extremes, referred to by Crawley, to whichthe conception <strong>of</strong> chastity has sometimes been carried byreligious creeds and social conventions. This has been wellillustrated dur<strong>in</strong>g recent centuries <strong>in</strong> our own civilization.When chastity is transformed <strong>in</strong>to a mere compulsoryabst<strong>in</strong>ence it ceases to be either natural, or a virtue,or beneficial. Its essential character is lost sight <strong>of</strong>. It isthen denounced as "unnatural," and regarded as the concomitant<strong>of</strong> an outworn religious creed or an effete politicalhierarchy. Thus it is that among ourselves the decay<strong>of</strong> ancient artificialrestrictions <strong>in</strong> the sphere <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> hassometimes led to the other extreme equally unnaturaland undesirable <strong>of</strong> license and promiscuity as an ideal,if not even a practice.Such violent oscillations <strong>of</strong> the just balance <strong>of</strong> chastitymay take a considerable time to reach equilibrium, s<strong>in</strong>ceany sudden rebound leads to another bound. We mayobserve this difficulty <strong>in</strong> Soviet Russia. In old Russia there[315]

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