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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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THE SEXUAL IMPULSE IN YOUTHMead, <strong>in</strong> Grow<strong>in</strong>g up <strong>in</strong> New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea, describes theManus people <strong>of</strong> the Admiralty Islands to the <strong>No</strong>rth <strong>of</strong>New Gu<strong>in</strong>ea as extremely puritanic. They regard <strong>sex</strong>with aversion and excretions with disgust, repress<strong>in</strong>g andthe maximumavoid<strong>in</strong>g their manifestations and seek<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong> secrecy. The children, though carefully tra<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> physicalrespects, are otherwise treated with extreme <strong>in</strong>dulgenceand left free;but <strong>sex</strong>ual manifestations, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>gmasturbation, are slight and <strong>in</strong>frequent, because there arefew opportunities for isolation. There seemed to be much<strong>sex</strong>ual frigidity, and the married women do not admitpleasure <strong>in</strong> married life and seek to avoid <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse,nor are there any signs <strong>of</strong> romantic affection.Another picture <strong>of</strong> youthful <strong>sex</strong> life outside our ownculture, though this time not untouched by our civilization,is presented by Margaret Mead <strong>in</strong> Com<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> Age <strong>in</strong>Samoa. Here our civilization has had a considerable dissolv<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>fluence on the old Samoan culture, so that whatmight seem a new and artificial culture has grown up andwith considerable rapidity. Yet it has grown up naturallyon what is evidently the foundation <strong>of</strong> the old Samoanculture, deprived <strong>of</strong> all but the m<strong>in</strong>imum <strong>of</strong> its taboosand restrictions, and it seems to work beneficially. Smallboys and girls tend to avoid each other, not by externalcommand but by custom and <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ct; yet from the earliestage, ow<strong>in</strong>g to the general absence <strong>of</strong> privacy, they beg<strong>in</strong>to be familiar with the essential facts <strong>of</strong> life and death,<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g the details <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> and <strong>sex</strong>ual <strong>in</strong>tercourse. Theyalso have an <strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>sex</strong> life from childhood; nearlyevery little girl masturbates from the age <strong>of</strong> six or seven,more or less <strong>in</strong> secret, the boys also, but more usually <strong>in</strong>groups, and casual homo<strong>sex</strong>ual practices are common; onthe part <strong>of</strong> grow<strong>in</strong>g girls or women work<strong>in</strong>g together suchcasual relationships are regarded as[ 10 3]"a pleasantand nat-

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