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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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HOMOSEXUALITY<strong>in</strong> the dark or with illusory hopes. The conjugal partnershould not be too young, and should be accurately <strong>in</strong>formedbeforehand as to the precise condition <strong>of</strong> affairs(most bi<strong>sex</strong>ual persons are predom<strong>in</strong>antly homo<strong>sex</strong>ual) ,cannot experience with a person <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong> that<strong>in</strong>timate unreserve and emotional extravagance which are<strong>of</strong> the essence <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong>ual love, and though potency isand the probable prospects. Unions so formed sometimesprove tolerable and even happy, should the couple be congenialto each other. But it must always be rememberedthat the chances <strong>of</strong> complete <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction on eitherside are small. The <strong>in</strong>vert, unless genu<strong>in</strong>ely bi<strong>sex</strong>ualpossibleitmay only be secured by imag<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that the partneris <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong> or even by concentrat<strong>in</strong>g the thoughtson some attractive <strong>in</strong>dividual <strong>of</strong> the same <strong>sex</strong>. This state <strong>of</strong>th<strong>in</strong>gs fails to give great satisfaction to the <strong>in</strong>verted partner,while the other partner, even if not clearly conscious<strong>of</strong> the imperfect character <strong>of</strong> the relationship, <strong>in</strong>st<strong>in</strong>ctivelyfeels some degree <strong>of</strong> dissatisfaction and depression, if notrepulsion. A union <strong>of</strong> this k<strong>in</strong>d is <strong>of</strong>ten more happy whenthe attempt to secure <strong>sex</strong>ual satisfaction is excluded, andthe relationshipis based on the satisfaction <strong>of</strong> other <strong>in</strong>terestscommon to both partners.Whether <strong>of</strong>fspr<strong>in</strong>g should be one <strong>of</strong> these <strong>in</strong>terests isserious question which it is not always easy to decide resolutely<strong>in</strong> the negative. Certa<strong>in</strong>ly it may be laid down as ageneral rule that it is not desirable a person constitutionallypredisposed to homo<strong>sex</strong>uality should procreate. When,however, the <strong>in</strong>verted partneris otherwise healthy, andbelongs to a fairly sound family, and the other partnerisentirely sound and normal, there is a reasonable hopethat the children may turn out fairly well. Children areafrequently desired by the <strong>in</strong>vert; they also form a consolationfor the other partner and may serve to consolidate the

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