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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXwhat is necessary/' as one such said, "for an exchange <strong>of</strong>impressions." "What are they th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g? What do they sayto each other about me? Oh! how I should like to know!"A patient <strong>of</strong> Garnier's, who haunted churches for this purpose,made the significant statement: "Why do I like go<strong>in</strong>gto churches? I can scarcely say. But I know that it is onlythere that my act has its full importance. The woman is <strong>in</strong>a devout frame <strong>of</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d, and she must see that such an act<strong>in</strong> such a placeisnot a joke <strong>in</strong> bad taste or a disgust<strong>in</strong>git isobscenity; that if I go there it is not to amuse myself;more serious than that! I watch the effect produced on thefaces <strong>of</strong> the ladies to whom I show my organs. I wish tosee them express a pr<strong>of</strong>ound joy, I wish, <strong>in</strong> fact, that theymay be forced to say to themselves: How impressive Natureis when thus seen!" It is clear that we have here atrace <strong>of</strong> the same feel<strong>in</strong>g which <strong>in</strong>spired ancient phallicworship, a feel<strong>in</strong>g which is, <strong>in</strong>deed, sometimes found today,as Stanley Hall and others have po<strong>in</strong>ted out, <strong>in</strong> youthsat adolescence, as well as <strong>in</strong> women, thoughit is normallyunder restra<strong>in</strong>t and merely exists as a certa<strong>in</strong> pride <strong>in</strong> thepossession <strong>of</strong> the fully developed male or female attributes.That is why exhibitionism is <strong>in</strong> its most nearly normalforms a youthful manifestation. <strong>No</strong>rwood East found thatasmany as 57 <strong>of</strong> his 150 cases, over one-third, were below25 years <strong>of</strong> age, the number gradually dim<strong>in</strong>ish<strong>in</strong>g at successivelater ages, while the great majority <strong>of</strong> the wholenumber are unmarried. That also iswhy so important agroup (40 <strong>in</strong> <strong>No</strong>rwood East's cases) can be termed "visionaries."That is to say they are cultivat<strong>in</strong>g youthful fantasies<strong>of</strong> abnormal courtship, though, as East remarks, "<strong>in</strong>not a few one is rem<strong>in</strong>ded <strong>of</strong> the courtships <strong>of</strong> the farmyardand the love-antics and 'show<strong>in</strong>g<strong>of</strong>f'<strong>in</strong>dulged <strong>in</strong> bycerta<strong>in</strong> animals."It isby a pseudo-atavism that this phallicism is openly

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