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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXtwice displayed his nates to girls at a distance. When travel<strong>in</strong>gthrough Moravia many years ago I noted a youngwoman who had been bath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> a stream near the railwayl<strong>in</strong>e and as the tra<strong>in</strong> passed turned her back to it andraised her chemise. (Here we have to bear <strong>in</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d theancient method <strong>of</strong> exorcism by display<strong>in</strong>g the nates, laterdegenerat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>to a way <strong>of</strong> show<strong>in</strong>g contempt especiallypracticed by women.) True exhibitionism is rare <strong>in</strong> thefemale except <strong>in</strong> childhood. As Douglas Bryan puts it,women <strong>in</strong> exhibitionism treat the whole body as a penisto be exposed.Exhibitionism is an act which, on the face <strong>of</strong> it, mayseem nonsensical or mean<strong>in</strong>gless, but it iswildly extravagantto regard it as necessarily an <strong>in</strong>explicable act <strong>of</strong> madness,such as it was once, if not still, frequently treatedboth by writers on <strong>in</strong>sanity and on <strong>sex</strong>ual perversion, eventhough <strong>in</strong> its extreme form it may be associated witheither.We must regard exhibitionism as fundamentally a symbolicact based on a perversion <strong>of</strong> courtship. The exhibitionist,if a male, displays the organ <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> to a fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>ewitness, and <strong>in</strong> the shock <strong>of</strong> modest <strong>sex</strong>ual shame by whichshe reacts to that spectacle he f<strong>in</strong>ds a gratify<strong>in</strong>g similitude<strong>of</strong> the normal emotions <strong>of</strong> coitus. He feels that he haseffected a psychic defloration.Exhibitionism is thus analogous, and <strong>in</strong>deed related, tothe impulse felt by many persons to perform <strong>in</strong>decorousacts or tell <strong>in</strong>decent stories before young and <strong>in</strong>nocentpersons <strong>of</strong> the opposite <strong>sex</strong>. This also is a k<strong>in</strong>d <strong>of</strong> exhibitionism,the gratification it causes ly<strong>in</strong>g exactly, as <strong>in</strong>physical exhibitionism, <strong>in</strong> the emotional confusion whichit is felt to arouse, though we cannot accept the view <strong>of</strong>Nacke that exhibitionism issimply a form <strong>of</strong> sadism andthe satisfaction felt only due to the horror aroused. The[190]

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