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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXregard James H<strong>in</strong>ton. It was half a century and more ago,though his arguments on the matter were not clearly publishedto the world until some forty years later. H<strong>in</strong>tondelayed any full public presentation <strong>of</strong> his criticism <strong>of</strong>Western monogamy until he had mastered the subject,and before then he died. He was not a man who could beput aside as abnormal or eccentric. He was a dist<strong>in</strong>guishedLondon physician and a philosophic th<strong>in</strong>ker as well, <strong>in</strong>close touch with the scientific activities <strong>of</strong> his day, widely<strong>in</strong>terested <strong>in</strong> general social questions, and <strong>in</strong> daily contactwith life. The masses <strong>of</strong> manuscript he left beh<strong>in</strong>d areshapeless and unsystematic, but have made it possible togather the general drift <strong>of</strong> his criticisms <strong>of</strong> monogamyand the conventional social systemassociated with it. Heconsidered that no real monogamy existed, and that <strong>in</strong>Western Society, as he knew it, there are fewer men whoare genu<strong>in</strong>ely monogamic than are to be found <strong>in</strong> Easternpolygamic societies. Monogamy, as established, is, he held,an essentially selfish and unsocial <strong>in</strong>stitution, and is responsiblefor prostitution. We arrived at ittoo soon, forit is a mistake to convert an ideal, however good, prematurely<strong>in</strong>to a universal legal form. The result has beenthat, though ostensibly exist<strong>in</strong>g to avert licentiousness, ithas called out more license than a polygynywould haveled to. So it seemed to him that our marriage system isrotten,and rapidly break<strong>in</strong>g up. What we need, he believed,isa fluid order <strong>in</strong> our <strong>sex</strong> system, not rigid andseemed desirable,unmodifiable, but permitt<strong>in</strong>g, when itthe union <strong>of</strong> one man with two women, though alwaysleav<strong>in</strong>g the order adjustableservice.to the claims <strong>of</strong> humanIn more recent days, a rather similar thesis, though<strong>of</strong>ten on different grounds and seldom or ever with thesame concentrated <strong>in</strong>tensity as by H<strong>in</strong>ton, has been put

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