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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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THE ART OF LOVEalways been pronounced. Yet there is a large m<strong>in</strong>ority<strong>of</strong> women, <strong>in</strong>different to the question <strong>of</strong> maternity, whocan form a relationship <strong>of</strong> <strong>sex</strong> as easily as the average man,while women generally are just as sensitive as men to theclaim <strong>of</strong> variety, and just as able if not better able tolove two persons at the same time. The custom <strong>of</strong> establish<strong>in</strong>ghard and fast oppositions between "man" and"woman/* <strong>in</strong> this field as <strong>in</strong> others, will not bear seriousconsideration, though it is not yet ext<strong>in</strong>ct. Women, liketheir brothers, had fathers, and however numerous them<strong>in</strong>or dist<strong>in</strong>ctions between mascul<strong>in</strong>e nature and fem<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>enature, they <strong>in</strong>herit the same fundamental humannature. It is, as we see, the existence <strong>of</strong> two different idealsbelong<strong>in</strong>g to two different stages <strong>of</strong> culture which isma<strong>in</strong>ly responsible for an artificial opposition. It is theclash between these ideals which we witness <strong>in</strong> our phase<strong>of</strong> transition today.That is why we should attribute importance to all preciseand statistical studies, on a large scale, <strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ualsituation <strong>in</strong> women, whether normal women or women belong<strong>in</strong>gto special groups, as compared with men. Merepicturesque general statement, the dogmatic generalizations<strong>of</strong> psycho-analysts and others <strong>in</strong>evitably colored bythe prejudices and the necessarily limited experiences <strong>of</strong>the man or woman mak<strong>in</strong>g them, are no longer <strong>of</strong> much<strong>in</strong>terest, and, fortunately, are no longer required. Precisegroups <strong>of</strong> data are now be<strong>in</strong>g accumulated. It is <strong>in</strong>deedonly today that they have become available, and that wepossess valuable statistical <strong>in</strong>vestigations by competentlytra<strong>in</strong>ed hands, such as those by Kathar<strong>in</strong>e B. Davis, R. L.Dick<strong>in</strong>son, and G. V. Hamilton.Does the seem<strong>in</strong>g greater passivity<strong>of</strong> women meanany fundamental psychic difference <strong>of</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>gs or physicaldifference <strong>of</strong> needs? A convenient measurement for[339]

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