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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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THE ART OF LOVEthose poetic treatises on the Art <strong>of</strong> Love which rema<strong>in</strong>edfamous, and sometimes <strong>in</strong>famous, for more than fifteencenturies, and so it still was <strong>in</strong> Christendom. It was notproper or respectable or moral to treat <strong>sex</strong>ual love, eithersocially or <strong>in</strong> literature, as anyth<strong>in</strong>g but a duty. It is sometimessaid that, for modern times, the first beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>of</strong>the art <strong>of</strong> love were discovered <strong>in</strong> France <strong>in</strong> the twelfthcentury, but it rema<strong>in</strong>ed a rather illegitimate art.Today the situation is different. To regard love as anart iscommonly justified, and moralists themselves arenot beh<strong>in</strong>dhand <strong>in</strong> ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g that justification. Theyrecognize that duty alone is no longer an adequate motivefor fidelity <strong>in</strong> marriage, and that to enlarge the basis <strong>of</strong>love, to multiply the motives that make mutual affectionattractive, by convert<strong>in</strong>g love <strong>in</strong>to an art, is to deepenthe foundations <strong>of</strong> a marital union and to fortify its morality.We are not here directly concerned with morality,but we are entitled to allow for its claims.Attempts to recognize this art date some time back <strong>in</strong>modern civilization. Ambroise Par, a great pioneer <strong>in</strong>surgery, advised a considerable degree <strong>of</strong> love-play as adesirable prelim<strong>in</strong>ary to coitus. More recently Fiirbr<strong>in</strong>ger,<strong>in</strong> his treatise on <strong>sex</strong>ual hygiene <strong>in</strong> marriage, consideredthat the physician should be competent to expound to hispatient the technique o conjugal <strong>in</strong>tercourse. To returnto France, the land with which the art <strong>of</strong> love seems <strong>in</strong> thefirst place especially associated, it was <strong>in</strong> 1859 that Dr.Jules Guyot produced his Brdviaire de I'Amour Expdrimentalewhich most admirably presented the ma<strong>in</strong> po<strong>in</strong>ts<strong>in</strong> the art <strong>of</strong> love, and was much later (1931) <strong>in</strong> parttranslated <strong>in</strong>to English under the title <strong>of</strong> A Ritual forMarried Lovers.At this po<strong>in</strong>t we are brought back to the characteristics<strong>of</strong> the <strong>sex</strong>ual impulse <strong>in</strong> women, and to that <strong>sex</strong>ual cold-

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