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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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MARRIAGEerted a stimulat<strong>in</strong>g effect, and retarded fatigue. We maycerta<strong>in</strong>ly believe that the semen may be absorbed naturally<strong>in</strong> coitus, even apart from the evidence alleged byVan de Velde that the breath after recent coitus maysometimes exhale an odor <strong>of</strong> semen. (Ican recall as a boyread<strong>in</strong>g <strong>of</strong> a German monk who was able to detect byodor a woman who had been unchaste.)Error has crept <strong>in</strong> by assum<strong>in</strong>g too easily that, ifsuchabsorption is possible, we must necessarily attribute to itthe beneficial results <strong>of</strong> coitus. It has been fortified by theundoubted fact that <strong>in</strong> contraceptive <strong>in</strong>tercourse the beneficialresults have not always followed. It would seem,however, that the ma<strong>in</strong> question here is whether the actwas felt to be gratify<strong>in</strong>g and satisfactory. There cannot bethe slightest doubt that, even with absence <strong>of</strong> contactwith the semen, coitus can be completely pleasurable andentirely beneficial <strong>in</strong> its results. There may be furtherbenefits proceed<strong>in</strong>g from the semen itself, but there areother ways <strong>of</strong> secur<strong>in</strong>g them and not all contraceptivemeasures <strong>in</strong>volve absence <strong>of</strong> contact with the semen. It isone <strong>of</strong> the numerous advantages <strong>of</strong> sterilization as a contraceptivemeasure that it allows complete freedom for theeffusion <strong>of</strong> semen. Even at the worst, as Killick Millardhas observed, many an over-burdened wife and motherwill gladly forgo these additional benefits for herself solong as she is able to escape from the evils <strong>of</strong> excessivematernity and at the same time be able to satisfy herhusband.BIBLIOGRAPHYG. V. HAMILTON, A Research <strong>in</strong> Marriage.R. L. DICKINSON, A Thousand Marriages.MARGARET SANGER, The New Motherhood.MICHAEL FIELDING, Parenthood: Design or Accident? AManual <strong>of</strong> Birth Control.

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