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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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PSYCHOLOGY OF SEXRoman Catholicism and Evangelical Protestantism)marriageshould be def<strong>in</strong>itely discouraged. The wife is todayno longer a purely domestic creature, with no <strong>in</strong>terestsoutside the home, and it is not easy to imag<strong>in</strong>e a satisfactorymarriage <strong>in</strong> which there is no general agreement concern<strong>in</strong>gthe larger movements <strong>of</strong> social life <strong>in</strong> the world,whatever difference there must <strong>in</strong>evitably be concern<strong>in</strong>gmatters <strong>of</strong> method and detail.It must always be remembered that all counsel concern<strong>in</strong>gthe advisability <strong>of</strong> a particular marriage is simply anattempt to foretell someth<strong>in</strong>g which cannot be known beforehandwith certa<strong>in</strong>ty. The couple, especially ifyoung,will not be tomorrow altogether the same as today. AsExner well puts it, "psychologic marriage, marriage as ais an achievement betweencreative personal relationship,mates and is not necessarily entered <strong>in</strong>to at the wedd<strong>in</strong>g."It is <strong>of</strong>ten a very slow achievement, years <strong>of</strong> gradual progressmay be needed before a relationship which can becalled marriage <strong>in</strong> the full and deep sense is reached. Itnever be reached at all.mayThere are many persons who, for some personal reason,cannot be advised to marry. Others for hereditary andeugenic reasons may be permitted to marry but not toprocreate; <strong>in</strong> such cases by far the best method <strong>of</strong> contraceptionis sterilization <strong>of</strong> the husband.BIBLIOGRAPHYMAYO FOUNDATION LECTURES, 1923-4, Our Present Knowledge<strong>of</strong> Heredity.LEONARD DARWIN, Eugenic Reform.K. B. DAVIS, Factors <strong>in</strong> the Sex Life <strong>of</strong> Twenty-two HundredWomen.DICKINSON and LURA BEAM, A Thousand Marriages.MRS. HAVELOCK ELLIS, "A <strong>No</strong>viciate for Marriage," TheNew Horizon <strong>in</strong> Love and Life.

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