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Psychology of sex - Total No. of Records in System :: 2032

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MARRIAGEand social value than the other types* Blonsky <strong>in</strong> SovietRussia has discussed the two chief types <strong>of</strong> women (ma<strong>in</strong>lyamong teachers) which he terms the monandric and thewith one man and the other who tends to formpolyandric types, the first only drawn <strong>in</strong>to serious relationshipnumerous relationships with men, either successively orsimultaneously, though <strong>of</strong> course there are <strong>in</strong>termediategroups between the two marked types. Blonsky f<strong>in</strong>ds thatthe monandric woman, not only <strong>in</strong>dividually but socially,tends to be superior to the polyandric woman, who ismore egoistic and assertive and more liable to unduenervosity, while the monandric women, who are twice asnumerous, are more devoted to duty, better balanced,more capable organizers and more successful <strong>in</strong> social contacts.These conclusions <strong>of</strong> Blonsky's doubtless have truthfor the average, outside as well as <strong>in</strong>side Russia, but wemust beware <strong>of</strong> generaliz<strong>in</strong>g too positively,and there arewomen <strong>of</strong> polyandric type for whom far more is to be saidthan Blonsky seems will<strong>in</strong>g to admit. Exactly the sameconclusions may be applied to men.This is not a matter <strong>in</strong> which we are called upon to giveadvice. In matters <strong>of</strong> social morality, <strong>in</strong>dividuals arebound to take the responsibility for their own actions.But it is desirable for the psychologist to be able to view<strong>in</strong>telligently the psychic reaction occurr<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the communities<strong>of</strong> today <strong>in</strong> which he lives. In this matter weundoubtedly witness a process <strong>of</strong> change, thoughit isalarmists would make itmuch less extreme than manyout to be.The "polygamy" which some people view today withconsternation is mostly, as some one has improperly termedit, merely a "consecutive polygamy/' due to an <strong>in</strong>creasedtendency to divorce. That is to say, it is simply an enlargement<strong>of</strong> the familiar monogamy. For the rest it is a recog-[283]

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