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"No," said <strong>the</strong> kindly nurse.<br />
"I didn't think so. But I felt I had to ask."<br />
Fortunately, <strong>the</strong> doctors pulled Mom out of it with some miracle drug. But she's never<br />
really been <strong>the</strong> same.<br />
The last time I saw Paul was in <strong>the</strong> late summer of 2002, about six weeks before he<br />
died in a plane crash. It was an evening event in <strong>the</strong> Twin Cities. Paul was in <strong>the</strong> middle of an<br />
intense, dead-even Senate race. He'd been targeted as vulnerable by <strong>the</strong> national Republican<br />
Party and money was flowing in from around <strong>the</strong> country for his opponent, a suit named<br />
Norm Coleman. Paul was fighting for his political life. The first thing he asked me was,<br />
"How's your mom?"<br />
I told Paul I had just visited her. "It was tough. I couldn't even have a conversation<br />
with her."<br />
Paul nodded, and said, "You know, touch means so much."<br />
The next day I took my mom out into <strong>the</strong> nursing home garden in her wheelchair. It<br />
was a beautiful day. I sat next to her for a couple of hours with my arm around her. I can't tell<br />
you whe<strong>the</strong>r it meant a thing to her, but it meant a lot to me.<br />
So, that was Paul. "Touch means so much" wasn't <strong>the</strong> kind of thing you'd hear from a<br />
Michael Dukakis. I, along with innumerable people, loved Paul Wellstone. For what he stood<br />
for, for what he fought for, and for who he was. I loved his wife Sheila, too. I don't think I<br />
ever saw Paul without Sheila by his side.<br />
Paul died on October 25, 2002, when his plane went down in Nor<strong>the</strong>rn Minnesota.<br />
Sheila; <strong>the</strong>ir daughter, Marcia; his driver, Will McLaughlin; two o<strong>the</strong>r close aides, Tom<br />
Lapic and Mary McEvoy;<br />
and two pilots died with him. Four days later, C-SPAN, along with almost every Minnesota<br />
TV and radio station, carried a hastilyput-toge<strong>the</strong>r memorial service for Paul, Sheila,<br />
Marcia, Will, Tom, and Mary. I was <strong>the</strong>re. It was a beautiful memorial, sometimes incredibly<br />
sad, sometimes funny, sometimes rowdy, and sometimes political. Some people watching on<br />
television were offended. Some people were moved. But <strong>the</strong> right saw an opening. They took<br />
moments out of context, lied about <strong>the</strong> rest, and used it as a political club to attack <strong>the</strong> Democrats.<br />
It won <strong>the</strong>m <strong>the</strong> Senate election in Minnesota and probably in Missouri, which<br />
means it gave Republicans control of <strong>the</strong> Senate.