Saamwoon voor die huwelik - AH Bogaards

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die wil van God. In die derde afdeling word riglyne aangedui met die oog op die pastorale begeleiding van mense wat saamwoon of beoog om saam te woon. Ten slotte word die rol van die owerheid en onderwerpe vir verdere studie oor saamwoon aangedui. Kernwoorde vir indeksering: Geslagsgemeenskap Huwelik Huweliksdatum Liefde Proefhuwelik Saamwoon Seks Trou. ii
ABSTRACT COHABITATION BEFORE MARRIAGE: A THEOLOGICAL ETHICAL ADJUDICATION The problem that is studied is formulated in chapter 1. It boils down to the fact that nowadays, also in churches with mainly white congregations, there are different viewpoints on living together. It varies from a direct rejection to a de facto acceptance. In view of this research is done for the purpose of assessing cohabitation according to Scriptures. In chapter 2 the essense and purpose of the Christian marriage are portrayed. It becomes clear that it is God‟s will that sexual intercourse may only take place inside the marriage. In chaper 3 the main reasons for cohabitation are examined. It is found that if all the causes are considered in their close relationship with each other, a favourable infrastructure for living together is created and people are strongly influenced to live together. The practice of cohabitation is evaluated in chapter 4 by using 8 of the 9 social ethical norms formulated by Heyns in the light of Scriptures and applied by Steensma as normatve viewpoints. It is found that cohabiting is at variance with all eight social ethical norms. It is also found that living together doesn‟t always result in marriage, and if it results in marriage, there is no gaurantee that the marriage will suceed and will not end up in at court of divorce. In chapter 5 a summary is given of the problem identification and the results of the previous 4 chapters. Then a conclusion is made about cohabitation in the light of Scriptures, namely that it is in conflict with the will of God. In the iii
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3.3.2 Verswakking van die Christeli
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- Die aantal ongetroude pare wat sa
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sagte pornografiese rolprente. Seks
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ons lewe inneem. Dit is „n erkenn
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- „n Biologiese aspek waarvolgens
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Uit bogenoemde uiteensetting is dit
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Dat die individualisme „n groot o
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„n rol in die toename van voorhuw
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3.3.7 Die botsing van pligte “Ond
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die paradigmaverskuiwing van modern
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Heyns (1986:98-131) uitgewerk, is a
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die kerk wat hulle wat saamwoon moe
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4.2.2.3 Verlowingstydperk Die getui
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uitsprake in die Nuwe Testament soo
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hulle verloof, tree hulle op in str
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Vierdens beskerm man en meisie/vrou
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gemis. „n Saamwoonverhouding is
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gemeenskap sou begin, dan sou die a
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4.2.3 Samevatting Samevattend kan g
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norm in die verhouding tussen man e
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onafhanklikheid en tydelikheid”.
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espekteer‟ (1 Pet. 2:17) en Paulu
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mens gegee om hom te dien en te bes
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(Matt. 6:33). Nader aangedui gaan d
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dat iets gesê of gedoen word wat d
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Die probleem is egter dat Spronk ha
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Heyns (1976:194) is dieselfde menin
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4.5.4 Samevattend Sosiale geregtigh
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saamwoonverhouding, word dit duidel
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Deur saam te woon asof hulle getrou
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(Joh. 8:31,32 - 1983 vertaling). Ma
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in liefde by die waarheid bly en so
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in die huwelik die een party mag/be
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voortgaan totdat dit uitgewoed is n
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„n Saamwoonverhouding beantwoord
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die huwelik afgeskaf en vrye liefde
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verband verwys word na 1 Petrus 1:3
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geen voorbeeld van een levende hoop
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HOOFSTUK 5 5. SAMEVATTING, GEVOLGTR
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5.4.2 Tree op met die regte gesindh
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waarvolgens mense wat saamwoon past
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- Daar is konflik tussen gelowige o
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konflik is met die oortuiging van C
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hulleself en mekaar te bluf en voor
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hulle moet óf hulle verhouding bre
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eeds verwys na die stelling van Joh
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