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THE BOOK OF TELLS<br />

Although there is no guaranteed method <strong>of</strong> detecting<br />

lies, there are certain things that you can do to increase<br />

your chances <strong>of</strong> spotting a liar:<br />

• To detect a lie successfully you need to set your criteria<br />

so that they're neither too high nor too low. That way<br />

you'll avoid coming to the conclusion that nobody ever<br />

tells a lie, or that everybody lies all the time.<br />

• Where possible, the actions that someone performs while<br />

they are supposedly lying should be compared with how<br />

they behave when they are telling the truth.<br />

• To be a good lie detector you should also concentrate on<br />

behaviour that falls outside conscious control or that<br />

people are likely to ignore.<br />

• Given the opportunity, focus your attention on what<br />

people say and how they say it, rather than on what they<br />

do.<br />

• It's important to work out whether the lie is likely to be<br />

spontaneous or rehearsed, and whether it's a high-stakes<br />

or a low-stakes lie. When the stakes are low or the lie has<br />

been rehearsed, the task <strong>of</strong> detecting the lie is much<br />

more difficult.<br />

• To spot a lie you should always focus on a broad range<br />

<strong>of</strong> behavioural and speech clues. If you think you can<br />

spot a liar on the basis <strong>of</strong> a single clue, you're deceiving<br />

yourself.<br />

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