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THE BOOK OF TELLS 16 Grammer, K., Kriick, K., Juette, A., and Fink, B. (2000) 'Non-verbal behavior as courtship signals: the role of control and choice in selecting partners'. Evolution and Human Behaviour, 21, 371-90. 17 Abbey, A. (1987) 'Misperceptions of friendly behavior as sexual interest: a survey of naturally occurring incidents'. Psychology of Women Quarterly, 11(2), 173-94; Shotland, R. L., and Craig, J. M. (1988) 'Can men and women differentiate between platonic and sexually interested behavior?' Social Psychology Quarterly, 51(1), 66-73. 18 Morris, D. (1977) Manwatching: A Field Guide to Human Behaviour. London: Jonathan Cape. 19 Caro, T. M. (1986) 'The function of stotting: a review of the hypotheses'. Animal Behaviour, 34, 649-62; Zahavi, A., and Zahavi, A. (1997) The Handicap Principle: A Missing Piece of Darwin's Puzzle. Oxford: Oxford University Press. 20 Burton, R. (1621) The Anatomy of Melancholy. Oxford: Henry Cripps. 21 Ambady, N., Hallahan, M., and Conner, B. (1999) 'Accuracy of judgments of sexual orientation from thin slices of behavior'. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 77, 538-47; Ambady, N., LaPlante, D., and Johnson, E. (2001) 'Thin slice judgments as a measure of interpersonal sensitivity'. In J. Hall and F. Bernieri (eds), Interpersonal Sensitivity: Measurement and Applications. Hillsdale, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum. 22 Berry, D. S., and McArthur, L. A. (1985) 'Some components and consequences of a babyface'. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 48, 312-23; McArthur, L. Z., and Berry, D. S. (1987) 'Cross-cultural consensus in perceptions of babyfaced adults'. Journal of Cross Cultural Psychology, 18, 165-92. 23 Eibi-Eibesfeldt, I. (1971) Love and Hate: The Natural History of Behavior Patterns. New York: Holt, Rinehart & Winston. 24 Campbell, R., Wallace, S., and Benson, P. J. (1996) 'Real men don't look down: direction of gaze affects sex decisions on faces'. Visual Cognition, 3(4), 393-412. 25 Hess, E. (1975) The Telltale Eye. New York: Van Nostrand Reinhold; Aboyoun, D. C, and Dabbs, J. M. (1998) 'The Hess pupil dilation findings: sex or novelty?' Social Behaviour and Personality, 26(4), 415-19. 26 Paul Ekman, personal communication. 27 Montagu, A. (1971) Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin. New York: Columbia University Press; Lockard, J. S., and Adams, R- M- (1980) 'Courtship behaviors in public: different age/sex roles'. Ethology and Sociobiology, 1, 245-53; McCormick, N. B., and Jones, A. J. (1989) 'Gender differences in nonverbal flirtation'. Journal of Sex Education and 372
NOTES Therapy, 15(4), 271-82. 28 Perper, T. (1985) Sex Signals: The Biology of Love. Philadelphia: ISI Press; Murray, T. E. (1985) 'The language of singles bars'. American Speech, 60(1), 17-30. 29 Krebs, J. R., and Dawkins, R. D. (1984) 'Animal signals: mind-reading and manipulation'. In J. R. Krebs and N. B. Davies (eds), Behavioral Ecology: An Evolutionary Approach. Sunderland, MA: Sinauer; Dabbs, J. M., and Mallinger, A. (1999) 'Higher testosterone levels predict lower voice pitch among men'. Personality and Individual Differences, 27, 801-4; Collins, S. (2001) 'Men's voices and women's choices'. Animal Behaviour, 60, 773-80. 30 Manes, J., and Wolfson, N. (1980) 'The compliment formula'. In F. Coulmas (ed.), Conversational Routine. The Hague: Mouton. See also Herbert, R. K. (1990) 'Sex-based differences in compliment behaviour'. Language in Society, 19, 201-24; Holmes, J. (1995) Women, Men and Politeness. London: Longman. 31 Dindia, K., and Allen, M. (1992) 'Sex differences in self-disclosure: a meta-analysis'. Psychological Bulletin, 112, 106-24. 32 Grammer, K. (1990) 'Strangers meet: laughter and non-verbal signs of interest in opposite-sex encounters'. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior, 14(4), 209-36. 33 Provine, R. R. (2000) Laughter: A Scientific Investigation. London: Penguin. 34 Grammer, K., and Eibl-Eibesfeldt, I. (1990) 'The ritualization of laughter'. In W. A. Koch (ed.), Naturlichkeit der Sprache und der Kultur. Bochum: Brockmeyer. 35 Provine, R. R. (2000) Laughter: A Scientific Investigation. London: Penguin. 36 Moore, M. M. (1998) 'Nonverbal courtship patterns in women: rejection signalling - an empirical investigation'. Semiotica, 118(3/4), 201-H. 7 Grammer, K., Kriick, K. B., and Magnusson, M. S. (1998) 'The courtship dance: patterns of nonverbal synchronization in opposite-sex encounters'. Journal of Nonverbal Behavior, 22(1), 3-27. 38 Bernieri, F. J., and Rosenthal, R. (1991) 'Interpersonal coordination: behavior matching and interactional synchrony'. In R. S. Feldman and B. Rime (eds), Fundamentals of Nonverbal Behavior. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press. 39 LaFrance, M. (1979) 'Nonverbal synchrony and rapport: analysis by the coss-lag panel technique'. 5oc/a/ Psychology Quarterly, 42, 66-70; 373
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THE BOOK OF TELLS A BANTAM BOOK: 0
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Contents Acknowledgements 1 Tells 2
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Spiecker, Martine Stewart, Michael
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THE BOOK OF TELLS purpose other tha
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THE BOOK OF TELLS lay false trails.
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THE BOOK OF TELLS recognize as tell
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THE BOOK OF TELLS often identify th
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THE BOOK OF TELLS look out for micr
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Similarly, when w
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Counterfeit tells
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THE BOOK OF TELLS sign of helplessn
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THE BOOK OF TELLS reasonably assume
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THE BOOK OF TELLS pre-emptive prope
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THE BOOK OF TELLS own actions - it'
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THE BOOK OF TELLS don't even know t
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2. Dominant Tells When we meet peop
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THE BOOK OF TELLS of the need to 'r
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THE BOOK OF TELLS about how importa
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THE BOOK OF TELLS stance than women
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THE BOOK OF TELLS the 'crotch-yank'
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Because they conv
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THE BOOK OF TELLS one where the int
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Superficially all
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THE BOOK OF TELLS much more likely
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THE BOOK OF TELLS how the eyes are
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THE BOOK OF TELLS an air of perpetu
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Yawning Tells Eve
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THE BOOK OF TELLS adult males than
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THE BOOK OF TELLS speech style so a
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THE BOOK OF TELLS attempting to be
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Looking round the
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THE BOOK OF TELLS talkative and inf
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THE BOOK OF TELLS things that appea
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THE BOOK OF TELLS elongated and the
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THE BOOK OF TELLS appeasement. Cons
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THE BOOK OF TELLS reduces the threa
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THE BOOK OF TELLS substitution tell
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Head Tells Charle
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THE BOOK OF TELLS to identify how t
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THE BOOK OF TELLS to find ways of l
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THE BOOK OF TELLS lifting the visor
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THE BOOK OF TELLS completed what he
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THE BOOK OF TELLS point out that wh
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THE BOOK OF TELLS the resulting exp
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THE BOOK OF TELLS opinions about bl
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THE BOOK OF TELLS unexpected and un
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THE BOOK OF TELLS several minutes,
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THE BOOK OF TELLS true, boss, you w
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THE BOOK OF TELLS • SIMPLIFYING.
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4. Conversation Tells The most obvi
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THE BOOK OF TELLS As we saw in the
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THE BOOK OF TELLS you started talki
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THE BOOK OF TELLS talk. Interrupter
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THE BOOK OF TELLS to eliminate the
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THE BOOK OF TELLS a way that minimi
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THE BOOK OF TELLS the speaker does
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THE BOOK OF TELLS 'place-dropping'
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Before you've had
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THE BOOK OF TELLS used to show that
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THE BOOK OF TELLS THE STRADDLE STAN
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THE BOOK OF TELLS movement to depar
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THE BOOK OF TELLS when you consider
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Hair Tells One of
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THE BOOK OF TELLS up the stairs so
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THE BOOK OF TELLS people's behaviou
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THE BOOK OF TELLS also come from th
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THE BOOK OF TELLS distinguishes the
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THE BOOK OF TELLS necessarily sound
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THE BOOK OF TELLS reflects the temp
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Adulation Tells A
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THE BOOK OF TELLS The Adoring Wife
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Iconic Hand Gestu
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THE BOOK OF TELLS of tearing into o
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THE BOOK OF TELLS people, insults a
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Insults are the E
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THE BOOK OF TELLS deciding in advan
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THE BOOK OF TELLS - it's far better
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Political intervi
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THE BOOK OF TELLS 'negative back-ch
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Transition Tells
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THE BOOK OF TELLS convey messages o
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THE BOOK OF TELLS include, who cont
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THE BOOK OF TELLS other person for
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THE BOOK OF TELLS hand is below, in
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THE BOOK OF TELLS talking and smili
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THE BOOK OF TELLS friendly. Kennedy
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THE BOOK OF TELLS trying to figure
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THE BOOK OF TELLS arm round the oth
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THE BOOK OF TELLS woman he knows an
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THE BOOK OF TELLS kisses were not t
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THE BOOK OF TELLS • VOCALIZED KIS
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Another strategy
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THE BOOK OF TELLS woman realizes th
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THE BOOK OF TELLS not because they
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THE BOOK OF TELLS competing with ea
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7. Royal Tells On a state visit to
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Elizabeth, the Qu
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THE BOOK OF TELLS idea that laughte
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THE BOOK OF TELLS Queen usually ado
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THE BOOK OF TELLS • THE HANDBAG.
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THE BOOK OF TELLS superiors. Touch,
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THE BOOK OF TELLS to shake hands, a
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THE BOOK OF TELLS than any other wa
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THE BOOK OF TELLS cuff. This is Cha
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THE BOOK OF TELLS talking to people
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THE BOOK OF TELLS - someone who was
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THE BOOK OF TELLS action occurs whe
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THE BOOK OF TELLS have high levels
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THE BOOK OF TELLS People can detect
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THE BOOK OF TELLS anxious and despo
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THE BOOK OF TELLS his keys it shows
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THE BOOK OF TELLS activities' which
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THE BOOK OF TELLS By covering their
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THE BOOK OF TELLS ANXIETY TELLS 232
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ANXIETY TELLS suddenly, to last lon
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ANXIETY TELLS the amount of time th
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ANXIETY TELLS being noticed, but be
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ANXIETY TELLS linguists call 'funda
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ANXIETY TELLS as to their desire to
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SEXUAL TELLS 'primary sexual charac
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SEXUAL TELLS between courtship sign
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SEXUAL TELLS animated, while the ma
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SEXUAL TELLS • SCANNING. People m
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SEXUAL TELLS are in the middle of t
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SEXUAL TELLS attractive man she can
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SEXUAL TELLS Flirting Tells Flirtin
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SEXUAL TELLS Leg Tells Women also t
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SEXUAL TELLS The last time I saw th
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SEXUAL TELLS the way that young peo
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SEXUAL TELLS been recognized. Writi
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SEXUAL TELLS the sixteenth century,
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SEXUAL TELLS Touching Tells Courtsh
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SEXUAL TELLS watch Hugh Grant on sc
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SEXUAL TELLS voice is big and muscu
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SEXUAL TELLS were keen to get toget
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SEXUAL TELLS have shown that people
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SEXUAL TELLS In contrast to the sig
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SEXUAL TELLS don't have the resourc
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SEXUAL TELLS mean anything. The oth
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LYING TELLS when they're given a pr
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LYING TELLS in their ability to det
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LYING TELLS • MULTIPLE CAUSES. Pe
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LYING TELLS speed up. In this kind
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LYING TELLS There is, however, a su
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LYING TELLS The Mouth-cover is an i
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LYING TELLS Smiling Tells Of all th
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LYING TELLS Micro-tells When people
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LYING TELLS the eyes bulging and th
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LYING TELLS SMOKESCREENS. Liars oft
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LYING TELLS work involved in produc
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11. Foreign Tells When people speak
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FOREIGN TELLS Action Tells Shibbole
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FOREIGN TELLS with a very light gri
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FOREIGN TELLS around. If he's serio
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FOREIGN TELLS side of the mouth are
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FOREIGN TELLS always talking, wheth
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FOREIGN TELLS Conversation Tells. I
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Page 363 and 364: NOTES Human Facial Expression, edit
Page 365 and 366: NOTES 9 Duncan, S. (1972) 'Some sig
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Page 369 and 370: NOTES Instrumentation, 1, 203-7; Be
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