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SUBMISSIVE TELLS<br />

feet' appear beside the eyes. Duchenne recognized that<br />

the critical clue to a genuine smile was to be found in the<br />

region <strong>of</strong> the eyes, because while the zygomatic major<br />

muscles are under conscious control, the orbicularis oculi<br />

are not. As he put it,<br />

<strong>The</strong> emotion <strong>of</strong> frank joy is expressed on the face by the<br />

combined contraction <strong>of</strong> the zygomaticus major muscle<br />

and the orbicularis oculi. <strong>The</strong> first obeys the will but<br />

the second is only put in play by the sweet emotions <strong>of</strong> the<br />

soul. . . <strong>The</strong> muscle around the eye does not obey the will;<br />

it is only brought into play by a true feeling, by an agreeable<br />

emotion. Its inertia, in smiling, unmasks a false friend.<br />

If you watch how subordinate people behave towards<br />

dominant people, you'll notice that most <strong>of</strong> their smiles<br />

involve the muscles above the mouth instead <strong>of</strong> those<br />

around the eyes - in other words, they're 'mouth smiles'<br />

rather than 'mouth&eye smiles', or what are known as<br />

'Duchenne smiles'. Strictly speaking, mouth smiles are<br />

'false' smiles because they pretend to show enjoyment but<br />

they're really only motivated by the desire to appear<br />

sociable and unthreatening. But if you watch how<br />

dominant people behave towards their subordinates,<br />

you'll notice that they smile far less, but that their smiles<br />

are more likely to be 'mouth&eye smiles'. This difference<br />

arises because subordinates use smiling for the purpose <strong>of</strong><br />

appeasement, whereas dominant people have the licence<br />

to smile when and how they wish. Smiles that are<br />

designed to appease may differ from genuine smiles in<br />

other ways. <strong>The</strong>y may, for example, involve the corners <strong>of</strong><br />

the mouth being pulled sideways rather than up, so that<br />

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