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THE BOOK OF TELLS<br />

an air <strong>of</strong> perpetual grumpiness - it makes them look<br />

dominant!<br />

A good example <strong>of</strong> affected grumpiness may be seen in<br />

the TV series, <strong>The</strong> Weakest Link, in which the presenter,<br />

Anne Robinson, makes a point <strong>of</strong> not smiling. She also<br />

uses another dominance tell: looking over the top <strong>of</strong> her<br />

spectacles when she wants to make the contestants look<br />

stupid. This is in fact one <strong>of</strong> her trademark tells, and it fits<br />

very well with the role she's chosen to project <strong>of</strong> a rather<br />

dominant and cold-hearted presenter. Looking over the<br />

top <strong>of</strong> the spectacles works in this way because it draws<br />

attention to the eyes - it says in effect, 'Look at me, I'm<br />

lowering my glasses so that I can get a clear, unobstructed<br />

view <strong>of</strong> you; there's nothing you can hide from me!' <strong>The</strong><br />

overlook tell is therefore a gesture <strong>of</strong> confrontation; it's a<br />

prelude to what zoologists call an 'agonistic stare'. <strong>The</strong><br />

effect <strong>of</strong> the gesture is even stronger when it's accompanied<br />

by a slight dip <strong>of</strong> the head, because this makes the<br />

stare more threatening.<br />

Thin lips are another sign <strong>of</strong> dominance because they<br />

show that someone is determined. As we shall see later<br />

on, smiling is a highly affiliative gesture - it's a sign <strong>of</strong><br />

openness and acceptance, and that's why it doesn't feature<br />

in the roles played by Clint Eastwood and Lee Van Cleef.<br />

Researchers have found that men who are judged to be<br />

dominant, and who have high levels <strong>of</strong> testosterone,<br />

actually produce much smaller smiles, but that the same<br />

relationship doesn't hold for women. 18 Some dominant<br />

individuals never seem to smile at all. President Vladimir<br />

Putin <strong>of</strong> Russia is a good example <strong>of</strong> a national leader<br />

who's very sparing with his smiles. Although he's<br />

athletic, Putin isn't very tall, and he has a small chin. Not<br />

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