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New ideas are created when working with this strategy. A common solution canonly develop when the parties gain knowledge of the interests of the other/s and thiscan even mean an overall improvement in the situation.Steps▶ Concentrate on your motive (cut off from your goal).▶ Exchange needs and interests (integration of different wishes).▶ Work on developing a common goal, which serves both sides andintegrates the different wishes into new ones.Some general recommendations for strategies in <strong>conflict</strong> situations▶ Try to listen to what the <strong>conflict</strong>‐partner/s offers.▶ Try not to leave the <strong>conflict</strong> too early; it might bring loss for you.▶ Try to give cooperation another chance as previously planned.▶ If you feel you are losing, leave the game for a while.▶ A win‐win strategy is neither pacifistic nor altruistic. It has nothingto do with giving up or giving one’s position away, but demonstratesone’s ability to handle <strong>conflict</strong> and a huge amount of creativity.2 . C o n f l i c t s t r a t e g i e s – a p p r o a c h e s t o c o n f l i c t 261

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