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70 MARRIAGE CUSTOMS AND BELIEFS part in<br />

As regards marriage itself, <strong>the</strong> existence <strong>of</strong> a dis-<br />

tinctive law is perhaps more than might be expected<br />

<strong>of</strong> this unsophisticated race, yet it not only exists but<br />

is recognised as binding, and is, moreover, pretty<br />

strictly observed, and it is noticeable that <strong>the</strong>re are in<br />

<strong>the</strong> Besisi dialect special terms for both "husband"<br />

and " wife."<br />

A remarkable fact is that <strong>the</strong> Besisi commonly<br />

have a regular carnival (at <strong>the</strong> end <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> />adz or rice<br />

harvest) when (as <strong>the</strong>y say) <strong>the</strong>y are " allowed to<br />

exchange " <strong>the</strong>ir wives, a practice which recalls <strong>the</strong><br />

wedding law <strong>of</strong> ancient Peru, by which <strong>the</strong>re was<br />

established one universal wedding - day annually<br />

throughout <strong>the</strong> land.<br />

The marriage settlements brought by <strong>the</strong> man<br />

consist <strong>of</strong> such objects as are best calculated to con-<br />

tribute to <strong>the</strong> satisfaction <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> bride and her parents,<br />

as, for instance, a string <strong>of</strong> beads, four cubits<br />

("hasta") <strong>of</strong> white cloth, a plate and a drinking-<br />

cup, and in some cases a ring ; but at <strong>the</strong> same time<br />

<strong>the</strong> husband is expected to provide a hut, cooking-<br />

pots, and o<strong>the</strong>r necessary articles such as will suffice<br />

to enable house-keeping to be started with reasonable<br />

comfort.<br />

The usual ceremony (as now practised by <strong>the</strong><br />

Besisi) is <strong>of</strong> a very simple description, and is usually<br />

performed by <strong>the</strong> Batin, who is a priestly chief, and,<br />

as a Besisi man once put it, " who takes <strong>the</strong> place <strong>of</strong><br />

an Imam " (<strong>the</strong> <strong>Malay</strong> Mohammedan priest).^<br />

' "The marriage ceremony is per- exchani^c <strong>of</strong> " sirih " (betel-leaf chewed<br />

formed ei<strong>the</strong>r by <strong>the</strong> Batin or <strong>the</strong> with areca-nut) <strong>the</strong>y are pronounced<br />

Jinang. The contracting parties stand man and wife. A feast is afterwards<br />

on each side <strong>of</strong> him, <strong>the</strong> girl on his held, to which all <strong>the</strong> members <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

left and <strong>the</strong> man on his -right. He tribe are invited."— Bellamy, p. 227.<br />

<strong>the</strong>n joins <strong>the</strong>ir hands, and after an Cp. _/. /. .4. iii. 490.

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