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<strong>Mentoring</strong> <strong>Future</strong> <strong>Leaders</strong><br />

when those feelings are wilfully suppressed. Ironically, there is <strong>
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even anxiety when success is achieved – we fear we may not <strong>
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measure up to the expectations placed on us by ourselves <strong>
</strong><br />

and others.<br />

Often a part of the mentor’s role is simply to be <strong>
</strong><br />

there for his/her mentee, to listen, to comfort, <strong>
</strong><br />

to be a friend.” (Gordon Shea, 1997, p31)<br />

Application<br />

How can you assist a protégé with personal, organisational or career<br />

changes? What are the “do’s and don’ts”?<br />

© Learning Link International<strong>
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April 2005<br />

Gordon Shea’s Guidelines for <strong>
</strong><br />

Managing Change<br />

The following will go a long way in helping mentees to deal with change:<br />

• A vision of how things will be once the change has happened.<br />

• Time to come to terms with the change.<br />

• An opportunity to change behaviour/learn new skills<br />

• Coping mechanisms to manage the stress of change.<br />

• Time to consider the meaning of the change, and to internalise and<br />

own the change.<br />

Context shifting is an important technique to help people to embrace<br />

change. This mental adjustment needs to be positive, instead of<br />

anticipating a catastrophe. Helping the mentee shift his/her mental context<br />

from today’s problems to tomorrow’s success, can be very productive.<br />

Module 4 - <strong>Mentoring</strong> Skills Page ! 1

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