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Mentoring 
 Future Leaders

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<strong>Mentoring</strong> <strong>Future</strong> <strong>Leaders</strong><br />

1. A mentee who tends to make good use of mentoring opportunities,<br />

is a person who:<br />

• Is willing and able to learn and to grow<br />

• Is receptive to reinforcing and corrective feedback<br />

• Has an internal locus of control – who believes “if it’s going to be,<strong>
</strong><br />

it’s up to me”<br />

• Takes initiative to schedule sessions and put real issues on the<br />

agenda<br />

• Has realistic expectations about what the relationship can and <strong>
</strong><br />

can’t do<br />

• Is willing to challenge and to be challenged<br />

• Approaches the relationship with an open mind<br />

• Interacts with others in a respectful way<br />

• Can enjoy the lighter moments/has a sense of humour<br />

• Does his/her part to get the maximum benefit from the relationship<br />

and to ensure a good return on the mentoring investment (results).<br />

2. Why do you think someone might be hesitant to make use of an<br />

opportunity to be mentored?<br />

Prospective protégé’s might<br />

• Fear that others might think they can’t cope - want to be seen as<br />

independent and self-sufficient.<br />

• Not trust that the mentor has his/her best interest at heart.<br />

• Doubt the credibility of a prospective mentor – what does he/she they<br />

have to offer?<br />

3. What could disqualify someone from being mentored?<br />

Protégés’ Fears, Anxieties and Concerns …<br />

Some protégés might be nervous and apprehensive about getting<br />

mentored. Acknowledge it and deal with it in a sensitive manner.<br />

Gareth Lewis highlights the following four fears:<br />

© Learning Link International<strong>
</strong><br />

April 2005<br />

Module 2 - Focus on Mentors and<br />

(2000, pp137-138)<br />

Mentees<br />

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