DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
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Phase 3 and 4: Exploration and Resolution<br />
For Jack and Dan there is change from being stuck in a post-sacking malaise<br />
towards a new, more proactive approach to building a new life, which leads to<br />
resolution in a new, more satisfying career and home life.<br />
Exploration of Alternatives<br />
The car crash has an immediate impact on Jack. After recovering from his<br />
injuries, he changes from the static, uninvolved life that he was living before, and<br />
instead embarks on a dynamic process of finding new activities to appreciate and of<br />
understanding himself, almost as if he has been jolted awake, or back to life:<br />
“I think there was a desperate need to find more ways to appreciate life, I think, and I<br />
found quite a lot of new friends. I started doing things that I hadn’t done before like<br />
going round to friend’s houses to cook, and to go out a bit more.” (p.5)<br />
He describes being on a quest to understand himself:<br />
“I think I started to have a bit more of a quest really, in understanding other people<br />
and understanding myself, and studying, and I started to get much more involved.”<br />
(p.6)<br />
He goes to see a counsellor, he starts reading psychology books, and he describes how<br />
enhanced self-knowledge is the aim of quest:<br />
“I read a lot of psychology books, basically Freud. I remember one book that had a<br />
profound effect on me was his Interpretation of Dreams. I was reading things, and<br />
something in my mind was applying his theory to my dreams and how I felt, and just<br />
reading things about biology, mostly scientific disciplines. It just felt so kind of<br />
important. It felt like it was important to know yourself. I felt quite strongly that I<br />
could do it.” (p.6)<br />
Dan starts to explore alternative career avenues, when his situation seems<br />
hopeless. Up until this point he has been looking for the same kind of work as he was<br />
fired from. Now he sees the possibility of alternative careers. He sees an advert in<br />
the local paper advertising for film lecturers at the local college, and initially gets just<br />
one day a week, which gradually increases. The lecturing experience he actually<br />
enjoys, and for the first time appreciates the importance of enjoying work, rather than<br />
gaining merely money and status from it.<br />
Back to Study<br />
Jack goes back to study within a year of the car crash. He initially goes onto a<br />
psychology degree, but then changes his mind and does a chemistry degree. He says:<br />
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