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Rob<br />

kids<br />

Working as advertising executive, married, no<br />

kids, wife anorexic<br />

a lie”<br />

Profound sense of disillusionment at work, marriage<br />

problems and very little physical contact with wife<br />

Table XVII – Case Ordered Matrix of Phase 1 Features<br />

Name Phase 2 – Life Situation Phase 2 – Experience and Identity<br />

Rachel Leaves husband, king children with her Considers suicide, is deeply depressed, anxious<br />

and physically unwell prior to separation<br />

Mary<br />

Takes time out from work through<br />

stress, and then leaves job as law<br />

partner<br />

Hysterical grief, confusion and tears. Terror at<br />

the prospect of building a new life.<br />

Lynne Leaves consultancy job and finishes<br />

affair<br />

Affair finishing leads to experience of intense<br />

grief. Stress prior to leaving job is intense.<br />

Angela Fired from job as admin assistant Extreme stress prior to redundancy then sense of<br />

betrayal<br />

Violet Partner admits infidelities, so leaves<br />

him<br />

Intense anger and frustration at partner, also<br />

sense of liberation<br />

Frances Leaves boyfriend after he goes to<br />

prison<br />

Considers suicide. Feels guilt and anxiety and<br />

confusion<br />

Camilla Leaves affair with boss and leaves job<br />

at print company<br />

“Angry” about affair and controlling boyfriend,<br />

feels “really sorry for myself”, but mood<br />

changed totally after she left him<br />

Feels “stuck in the worst place imaginable”,<br />

soon feels liberated but anxious after separation<br />

Gemma Leaves husband, takes children with<br />

her<br />

Dan Fired from job in corporate film Stress prior to redundancy, sense of betrayal at<br />

time of redundancy, and anxiety directly after<br />

George Leaves job after suicide attempt Attempts suicide after becoming depressed.<br />

Feels a new clarity after recovering<br />

Neil<br />

Leaves wife, moved internally at<br />

company, then leaves company<br />

Frustrated, angry, fearful of what would happen<br />

to him and his wife, fear of what others would<br />

think<br />

Vern Leaves wife and job, moves to new city Feels guilt and relief, and then sadness and<br />

loneliness as misses son<br />

Leon Leaves wife, and son lives with wife Feels “desperately sad”, “emotionally wrung<br />

out”, “heart-wrenching<br />

Guy<br />

Wife asks for divorce, then changed job<br />

internally before leaving company<br />

Shocked by wife’s request for divorce. Feels “a<br />

sense of total annihilation”, feels anger and<br />

sadness.<br />

Ben Wife leaves him, with little warning,<br />

asks for divorce<br />

Felt “absolutely demolished”, felt worthless,<br />

contemplated suicide, felt a total failure<br />

Jack Leaves job, after being in a car crash Feels miserable and angry, and very nervous<br />

after the crash<br />

Victoria Leaves job and family at the same time Feels guilt and confusion, as well as excitement<br />

about possibility of new life<br />

Clare<br />

Lilly<br />

Leaves job then husband – two separate<br />

Phase 2s, with several year interval<br />

Relationship ends, suicide attempt,<br />

leaves job several months later<br />

Feels liberated after leaving job, but then intense<br />

grief after leaving husband<br />

Depressed by failing relationship, suicidal<br />

thoughts, and anxious about future when leaves<br />

job after recovering from suicide attempt<br />

Frank Leaves wife, then fired from job six<br />

months later<br />

Feeling frustrated and unhappy before leaving<br />

wife, and then feels excited after leaving job<br />

Mark Colleague attempts suicide, leaves job Intense job stress and confusion prior to leaving<br />

job, then a new vitality after leaving<br />

Rob Leaves job and wife, almost<br />

simultaneously<br />

Highly unhappy prior to separation from work<br />

and hom<br />

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