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All these ladies and gents went back to university to do a part time or full time course in something,<br />

directly off the back off the crisis.<br />

This is surely more than a coincidence. It could be an artefact of the recruitment.<br />

Or it could be that in refinding their passions, and wanting to pursue something they want, rather than<br />

something they are forced to do, they must retrain.<br />

It is an act of agency – Camilla referred to how it was an assertion of her individuality that her<br />

controlling boyfriend could not veto. Alison suggests that it was an active choice.<br />

Often they speak of wanting to do some course for many a year, but only having the will and the<br />

courage now.<br />

So basically, I am seeing this as part of the agency theme – part of contacting the authentic self, and<br />

developing, growing as a human being, rather than being stuck in a rut, or trapped in a hole.<br />

Include quotes re retraining, or studying here:<br />

There is an entire study in this – looking at the relationship of those who have gone back to study and<br />

crisis. And there is funding there. Definitely. From Adult Education council or something…<br />

29/4/05<br />

Re beginning and end<br />

The lifecourse is a continuum with a definite beginning and end but without any absolute boundaries<br />

within it. Society, to take control over the chaotic progression of time, stamps its own benchmarks<br />

onto the flow of life, in order to create chapters – weddings, birthdays and annual celebrations give<br />

order to the flow of time and cycles of nature. A crisis is a period that someone incises out of their past<br />

as a “nuclear episode” of their life narrative. But what is clear is that the crisis is far from a discrete,<br />

self-contained event, but is a peak, or a section, of a wave that begins perhaps even in childhood, or<br />

certainly for a long time, and tapers off over a long period. The crisis is always a “crisis of wholeness”<br />

as Erikson said, but the fractures in the whole can have been laid for a long time, and often the<br />

respondents spontaneously give me a developmental story starting in childhood that lays the context for<br />

the episode in question.<br />

9/5/05<br />

Levinson’s dream:<br />

“In its primordial form, the Dream is a vague sense of self-in-adult-world. It has the quality of a<br />

vision, an imagined possibility that generates excitement and vitality. At the start it is poorly<br />

articulated and only tenuously connected to reality, although it may contain concrete images such as<br />

winning the Nobel Prize or making the all-star team. It may take a dramatic form as in the myth of the<br />

hero: the great artist, business tycoon, athletic or intellectual superstar performing magnificent feats<br />

and receiving special honors. It may take mundane forms that are yet inspiring and sustaining: the<br />

excellent craftsman, the husband-father in a certain kind of family, the highly respected member of<br />

one’s community.” (Levinson et al., 1978, p.91)<br />

Those who build an initial adult life structure around their Dream have a better chance of attaining<br />

personal fulfilment. Those whose life structure is a betrayal of their Dream ‘will have to deal with the<br />

consequences’.<br />

This links to re-finding the dream at, or after, times of crisis….searching back into childhood for what<br />

one really wants to do. Recovering the lost dream.<br />

11/5/05<br />

when things are happening to someone, and they lose agency and control, is the summation of not<br />

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