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• Are you still as driven by money as you were then?<br />

• Has there been a change in this value set?<br />

• What are you aiming for now?<br />

• What is important to you now?<br />

o Probe for:<br />

Relationships and family<br />

Positive contribution<br />

Spiritual aspect of life<br />

Metacognition<br />

• Did you feel that you had lost perspective in your life before the crisis?<br />

o In what sense?<br />

o Lost perspective on what?<br />

• Did you feel that you were living consciously?<br />

• Did you ever feel that you were on “autopilot”?<br />

• Did you ever feel that life had become an automatic routine?<br />

• Did you know yourself and who you were as a person clearly?<br />

• Were you aware of the impact your life was having on those around you?<br />

• Did you even think about leaving your life? When did that start?<br />

• When did you start to be able to stand back and look at your situation and get some<br />

perspective on it?<br />

• How did that new perspective come about?<br />

• How would you compare your mindset now with before the crisis?<br />

o What do you have perspective on now?<br />

Gender Identity: Animus and Anima<br />

• Before crisis, would you have described yourself as “in touch” with your masculine /<br />

feminine side?<br />

• Were you aware of it?<br />

• How would you describe your masculine side?<br />

• How would you describe your feminine side?<br />

• Why do you think it had remained latent/hidden before the crisis?<br />

• How did you feel and think when it started to become more apparent?<br />

o Did it worry you at all?<br />

• What was your first reaction?<br />

• How did the new masculinity / femininity express itself?<br />

o Did it make you act / think differently?<br />

o Friends / activities?<br />

• Did you become more aware of your own emotions and feelings?<br />

o Was this linked to the change in sense of your femininity?<br />

Transformation<br />

Q – On the last page of the transcript, you say, “I have been rebirthed as the new me”.<br />

• How would you describe the old Rob?<br />

• What attributes and goals did he have?<br />

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