DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
DEVELOPMENTAL CRISIS IN EARLY ADULTHOOD: A ...
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New vocational role<br />
In Phase 4, crisis is resolved when a new role is adopted that is based on a<br />
visible expression of what these four women had said was their hidden passion when<br />
they were young. Gemma’s deeply held desire to explore leads to taking a role in the<br />
national health service and aiming for a career in counselling. Rachel’s desire to read<br />
and learn leads her to academia, where she becomes a lecturer. Frances becomes a<br />
teacher, first in Turkey and then back in the UK, while also working with helping<br />
refugees. Violet finishes her BA in Fine Art and becomes an artist. She expresses her<br />
new sense of empowerment and vocation in the following quote:<br />
“I think I have a mission to integrate all those things that interest me. I mostly deal<br />
in photography and film, and all these other areas. In a way my mission is to get my<br />
integrated voice together so that I make my statement in the world. Just to be part of<br />
the fantastic chorus, I suppose.” (p.8)<br />
Developing a stronger self<br />
The crisis for all four in this cluster is a turning point from living passively and<br />
being controlled by others, to making one’s own decisions and controlling one’s own<br />
direction through life so that it is based on desire and passion, rather than on duty and<br />
the demands of others. This leads to a new sense of personal strength. It is a shift in<br />
the polarity of control from external to internal, as choices are now felt to be selfdetermined.<br />
And with a newly found internal locus of control comes a new belief in<br />
personal power and personal efficacy:<br />
“I had a job as a consultant then, and in the corporate world I started to feel very<br />
strong then…It took achievement, that was the only way for me.” (Rachel p.7)<br />
“I’ve got a stronger sense of my own identity and my sexuality. I can play around<br />
with my power and my control. I never thought I had any power, I didn’t know what<br />
that word meant in my twenties, so just the complete opposite.“ (Gemma, p.9)<br />
“In a real nutshell, it made me stronger, and I think it’s made me less wishy-washy. I<br />
stand up for myself now; I am not ever going to let myself get into the position of<br />
being the victim again. I always had victim tendencies, but I would never really<br />
voice if I was not happy about something…And now I just stand up for myself more.”<br />
(Frances, p.13)<br />
6.2 Female Cluster: “Career Woman Crisis” (N=4)<br />
Cluster 2 is called “Career Woman Crisis” and subsumes Mary, Angela,<br />
Lynne and Camilla. These four had developed a career-focused life structure prior to<br />
the crisis, in contrast to the domestically-focused cluster described above. Prior to<br />
crisis, Mary was a partner in a corporate law firm, Lynne was a high level HR<br />
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