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Materialism<br />

• How do you think your experience of crisis affected your attitude to money?<br />

• How about where it sits in your list of priorities?<br />

• If I had asked you when you were at Wall Street for your list of aims and aspirations,<br />

what would you have said?<br />

• You mentioned that status was important to you then and is still important to you now.<br />

Could you describe if there are any differences or if they are the same?<br />

• What are you aiming for now?<br />

• What is important to you now?<br />

o Probe for:<br />

Relationships and family<br />

Positive contribution<br />

Spiritual aspect of life<br />

Metacognition<br />

• Did you know yourself and who you were as a person clearly?<br />

• Were you aware of the impact your life was having on those around you?<br />

• Did you even think about leaving your life? When did that start?<br />

• When did you start to be able to stand back on your situation and get some<br />

perspective on it?<br />

• How did that new perspective come about?<br />

• How would you compare your mindset now with before the crisis?<br />

o What do you have perspective on now?<br />

Role of Crisis / Transformation<br />

• You also said at one point “if I hadn’t had the crisis, I would be in much worse shape<br />

than I am now”. What did you mean by that?<br />

• Some people over crisis change their lives considerably, start a new career path.<br />

While you have described all the inner stuff that has gone on, you have come through<br />

it and you are still working in a law firm. How do you reconcile that?<br />

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