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3. Hostility. Hostility may create
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10. Mind wandering. This is a state
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“Feel” statements refer to the
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❚❘ “DON’T YOU THINK THAT .
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The questioner is attempting to eli
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Or the questioner may precede his o
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from the basic aims of human relati
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Activity 6 1. The participants form
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1. No number or array of numbers ca
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REFERENCES Jones, J.E. (1972). Mode
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A DEFINITION OF CLARITY “Getting
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person has his or her own set of pe
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frustrated in his or her efforts to
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Feedback The use of feedback is imp
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13. Use as many channels as necessa
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These modes of response may communi
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A More Effective Approach Problems
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❚❘ KENEPATHY Michele Stimac The
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here-and-now becomes past data that
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there-and-then data that need to be
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REFERENCES Brammer, L. (1973). The
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The second set of symbols with whic
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abstracting process when they are a
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example, if the emphasis is on the
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❚❘ MAKING REQUESTS THROUGH META
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❚❘ NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION AND
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Kinesics Movement of the body (head
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Self-Awareness One technique in thi
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Awareness in Situations Within the
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to deal with power and influence, t
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In training there is ample evidence
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Figure 2. Male and Female Ego State
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■ In co-training, the male traine
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❚❘ COMMUNICATING COMMUNICATION
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5. Use as few words as possible to
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Logical, Lecturing Response. “Don
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❚❘ ANYBODY WITH EYES CAN SEE TH
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5. Data from sense organs, fed into
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INTERPRETATION OF “MR. RAT” It
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❚❘ THE FOUR-COMMUNICATION-STYLE
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Shifting Styles Under Stress Our so
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analyze a complex interpersonal iss
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❚❘ JARGON: REDISCOVERING A POWE
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experiencing the solid, down-to-ear
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the good of “the team.” Similar
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etrievals (Fuld & Buschke, 1976). T
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❚❘ UNDERSTANDING AND IMPROVING
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The fourth and final type of inform
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Figure 1. The Communication Model:
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analysis, it may be found that the
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CONGRUENCY Another important elemen
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obviously, involves the degree to w
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members of the system (members of t
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Bowers, D.G., & Franklin, J.L. (197
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often rejected by the recipient; an
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initiated the feedback could benefi
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Blumberg, H.H. (1972). Communicatio
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❚❘ THE LOST ART OF FEEDBACK Han
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GUIDELINES FOR EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK T
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is appropriate and will be apprecia
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Giving Feedback: “You Can’t Tel
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They offer a logical and effective
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REFERENCE Blanchard, K., & Johnson,
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Consultant (to the client group):
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Consultant (to Member A): “What i
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saying what you wanted to say in th
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explicitly invites and allows the c
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Evaluation If Wheeler continues to
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Lack of time and energy is also a b
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❚❘ ENCOURAGEMENT: GIVING POSITI
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child, should never think that he o
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❚❘ CREATING CONDITIONS THAT ENC
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Table 1. Obstacles to Mentoring Fea
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Similarly, performance appraisal an
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structures and systems in the organ
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enthusiasm. In settings in which em
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opportunity to talk with a third pa
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Table 3 (continued). Structural Int
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The impact of the physical space of
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includes the education and involvem
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necessarily defined over time, step
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Harrison (1970) suggests that an in
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Deal, T.E., & Kennedy, A.A. (1982).
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❚❘ IMPROVING THE USE OF BEHAVIO
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most dependent on coding. A simple
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model. This would prevent objection
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1. Give participants a verbal model
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❚❘ USING MENTORING FOR PROFESSI
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WHY INFORMAL MENTORING AND PERFORMA
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implementation are undertaken after
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■ What skills will we need to imp
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The process of articulating a philo
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In addition, the nine mentors and t
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developed and successful: How will
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❚❘ ATTRIBUTION THEORY: APPLICAT
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Dimensions of Attributions There ar
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and advantageous attributions for f
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Applications in the Managerial Coac
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❚❘ CONFRONTATION: TYPES, CONDIT
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In summary, the purposes and motive
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dismiss the confrontation and me as
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Although creative growth is seldom
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■ The Confidentiality Assumption:
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❚❘ ASSERTION THEORY Colleen Kel
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Nonverbal Behavior Each response st
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sexist remarks, and handling variou
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❚❘ DEALING WITH ANGER John E. J
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DEALING WITH PERSONAL ANGER The obv
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❚❘ CONTRACTING: A PROCESS AND A
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costs, courses of action, methods t
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❚❘ ENCOURAGING OTHERS TO CHANGE
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usiness to intervene, you might mak
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6. If you encounter resistance, shi
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could be created in a package deal.
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A MODEL OF NEGOTIATION Figure 3 sum
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■ Exploratory moves often are pre
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❚❘ THE NUTS AND BOLTS OF ASSERT
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6. Mutuality: accepting another per
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Rights also imply responsibilities
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2. Fogging. “I can see how you mi
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3. Stating a need with a request fo
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We can follow Les, a fictional part
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SUMMARY This article has discussed
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Bloom, L.Z., Coburn, K., & Pearlman
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McCaffery, M. (1983). Personal mark
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❚❘ A POSITIVE APPROACH TO RESIS
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punished, or “sold” on what the
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■ Change occurs by dethroning tho
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Where individualism is high, a thor
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1. The structure of a communication
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❚❘ SOCIAL INTERACTION AND ORGAN
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of defunct cultures. However, some
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form they take, these sequences des
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present as varied a support for his
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a remote outpost or office location
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the culture of the opponents is mod
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epulsion. Groups become cohesive wh
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Jourard, S.M. (1971). Self-disclosu
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about how to develop and use influe
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produce movement or change. Harriso
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managers were seen as transactional
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consistency in linking newcomers wi
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3. First day at work. The new emplo
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IN CONCLUSION: ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIV
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5. The new employee has lunch with
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❚❘ LEGENDARY CUSTOMER SERVICE A
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These efforts dramatically communic
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FUNDAMENTAL 4: LISTEN The fact that
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Every organization must judge its a
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test their talents, and failing to
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❚❘ HOW TO MAKE NEW-EMPLOYEE ORI
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8. Adult-learning concepts guide th
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST 1 Ins
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST (cont
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may even suppress female-oriented b
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learn to respect and to deal with t
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no female permanent secretaries in
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Hostile environment harassment occu
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instance “hostile” means that t
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■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ To lear
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helpful if the question does not ha
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❚❘ FROM VISION TO ACTION: DETER
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perspective, and she wanted both ma
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Instructions: Rate each of the foll
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❚❘ OPERATIONAL DEFINITIONS: AN
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and end users now define and redefi
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in meaningful ways. Each definition
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uilt on shared expectations and kno
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interpretations of the same or simi
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■ Benchmarking is “. . . the pr
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PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS We usually h