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Clarifying Goals and Strategies<br />

In the second approach, contracting focuses on the client and the “problem.” This<br />

approach asks four questions: (1) What are the client’s wants? (2) What is the client<br />

willing to do to meet these wants? (3) What are the client’s criteria for success? (4)<br />

What benefits does the client gain on completing the contract?<br />

Determining the client’s wants involves a clarification of both the present situation<br />

and future goals and objectives. The more specific and behavioral the terms of the<br />

descriptions are, the easier it is to determine whether and to what extent they have been<br />

met. Sometimes the client may feel totally lacking in goals or objectives. In this case the<br />

first “want” in this first step may be to “determine goals.”<br />

To find out what the client is willing to do to meet his or her wants involves<br />

strategies and action plans. There may be many ways of moving from A to B, and part<br />

of this step is weighing the various alternatives. Again, it is important that the answer to<br />

this question be expressed in the most specific, behavioral, and measurable terms<br />

possible.<br />

Criteria for success are essential in order to evaluate results; and, in order to<br />

determine whether the criteria have been satisfied and to what extent, the criteria must<br />

be specific.<br />

The question of benefits is linked to motivation. If the client completes the contract<br />

successfully, what will that mean to him or her? Will the client think differently? act<br />

differently? feel differently? have more income? Are these outcomes pleasing?<br />

This approach, focusing on the client and the problem, can provide the facilitator<br />

with a frame of reference. Although the questions are presented sequentially, they are<br />

interrelated; and in practice the facilitator may experience a good deal of overlap. Both<br />

the facilitator and the client also need to be aware that the contract may be recycled at<br />

any time.<br />

ADVANTAGES TO CONTRACTING<br />

Contracting has advantages on many levels. First, within the contracting process, the<br />

client’s integrity and autonomy are respected. The first approach emphasizes how<br />

important it is for the facilitator and the client to “level” with each other. Both need to<br />

reveal hidden agendas, and both are held responsible for their actions.<br />

Second, and closely related, contracting may clarify the “helpee-helper” syndrome,<br />

a relationship filled with pitfalls. The charismatic helper may leave the client floating on<br />

a magic cloud but with no understanding for self-help when the cloud disappears. The<br />

“helpless” client may seduce the facilitator into solving the problem and then discount<br />

the solution with “Yes, but...” (Berne, 1964). Contracting avoids some of these pitfalls<br />

by asking the parties to level with each other and to state expectations clearly.<br />

The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright ©1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer ❚❘ 325

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