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THE NUTS AND BOLTS<br />

OF ASSERTIVENESS TRAINING<br />

Beverly Byrum<br />

Assertiveness is a topic that continues to be of interest to practitioners of human<br />

resource development (HRD) and to the general public. In addition, it continues to be<br />

the focus of many organizational-training efforts. The purpose of this article is to<br />

explore the topic and various issues involved in assertiveness training, such as<br />

definitions of “assertiveness,” assertive rights, assertive techniques, values underlying<br />

assertiveness, consequences of assertiveness training, and the method of change<br />

advocated by assertiveness.<br />

BACKGROUND<br />

“Assertiveness” is a communication technique designed to demonstrate respect toward<br />

oneself and others and to allow the expression of a full range of behaviors. The term<br />

came to prominence within the general framework of behavior therapy in 1949, and the<br />

technique was first used as a counterconditioning procedure for anxiety (Alberti, 1977).<br />

With the beginning of the women’s movement in the Sixties, assertiveness was adopted<br />

by many as a basis and a means for upholding women’s rights. In fact, many of the<br />

books on assertiveness that were sold at that time were written specifically for women<br />

(Baer, 1976; Phelps & Austin, 1975). If assertiveness suggests to some that “anything<br />

goes” and that being “pushy” is the objective, these ideas can probably be traced to the<br />

influence of the militant extreme of the women’s movement.<br />

If assertiveness did have a bad name, much has been done in recent years to dispel<br />

the notion that it is solely for women who want to move from passivity into<br />

aggressiveness. Books and articles approaching assertiveness from a management<br />

perspective began to surface in the late Seventies and early Eighties (Back & Back,<br />

1982; Burley-Allen, 1983; Cawood, 1983). Since that time assertiveness has apparently<br />

been legitimized in the world of work and has been adopted by training professionals as<br />

a skill worthy of teaching (Batten, 1979; Meier & Pulichene, 1980; O’Donnell & Colby,<br />

1979; Paul, 1979).<br />

Originally published in The 1988 Annual: Developing Human Resources by J. William Pfeiffer (Ed.), San Diego, CA: Pfeiffer &<br />

Company.<br />

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The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright ©1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer

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