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here-and-now becomes past data that fill “mini-buckets” in the there-and-then<br />

(preconscious) area of our larger buckets (Figure 2).<br />

Figure 2. The There-and-Then Level: Preconscious<br />

While receding into the there-and-then area, data are either posited so that they<br />

influence our current behavior, thoughts, and feelings or so that they are comparatively<br />

insignificant in our lives.<br />

Through memory we can recall a great deal of these data, but some are virtually lost<br />

forever. Much of what we have done, thought, and felt has the potential to influence us<br />

dynamically at some later time in our lives. The data remain to be recalled and perhaps<br />

serve as a modifier of our current (here-and-now) behavior, thoughts, perceptions,<br />

feelings, and experience. Sometimes harmoniously, sometimes not, the past and present<br />

interrelate. Lewin (1951) might call these data the “facts” in our life space—memories<br />

that force their way into the current situation where they stir old feelings and thoughts<br />

and modify current perceptions and behavior. To kenepathize with us, others must<br />

understand the influences of the intruding mini-buckets that act as catalysts at the<br />

present moment.<br />

There-and-Then Level: Unconscious<br />

Even more remote and inaccessible is the unconscious area of our buckets—the most<br />

inscrutable of all (Figure 3). This area contains miniature buckets that represent what we<br />

have repressed throughout our lives. Experiences too painful to deal with have been<br />

pushed into the unconscious. Like experiences stored in our preconscious, they often<br />

The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright © 1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer ❚❘ 39

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