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Figure 2. Reducing Blind Spots In the process of giving and asking for feedback, some people tend to do much more of one than the other, thereby creating an imbalance of these two behaviors. This imbalance may have consequences in terms of the person’s effectiveness in the group and group members’ reactions to him or her. The size and shape of the arena, therefore, is a function of both the amount of feedback shared and the ratio of giving versus eliciting feedback. In order to give you some idea of how to interpret windows, I would like to describe four different shapes that characterize an ideal window and three extreme ratios in terms of eliciting and giving feedback. These descriptions will give you some idea of how people, characterized by these windows, might appear to others in a group setting. See Figure 4. Figure 3. Reducing the Facade 164 ❘❚ The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright ©1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer
Figure 4. Ideal Window and Extreme Ratios Window number 1 is an “ideal window” in a group situation or in any other relationship that is significant to the person. The size of the arena increases as the level of trust in the group increases, and the norms that have been developed for giving and receiving feedback facilitate this kind of exchange. The large arena suggests that much of the person’s behavior is aboveboard and open to other group members. As a consequence, there is less tendency for other members to interpret (or misinterpret) or project more personal meanings into the person’s behavior. Very little guesswork is needed to understand what the person is trying to do or communicate when his or her interactions are open both in terms of eliciting and giving feedback. It is not necessary, however, to have a large arena with everyone. The people with whom you have casual acquaintances may see this kind of openness as threatening or inappropriate. It is important to note, however, in your group or with some of your more significant relationships, that when most of your feelings, perceptions, and opinions are public, neither person has to engage in game behavior. The large facade in window 2 suggests a person whose characteristic participation style is to ask questions of the group but not to give information or feedback. Thus, the size of the facade is inversely related to the amount of information or feedback flowing from the individual. He or she responds to the group norm to maintain a reasonable level of participation, however, by eliciting information. Many of his or her interventions are in the form of questions such as these: “What do you think about this?” “How would you have acted if you were in my shoes?” “How do you feel about what I just said?” “What is your opinion about the group?” The person wants to know where other people stand before committing himself or herself. You will notice that his or her “eliciting feedback” arrow is long, whereas the “giving feedback” arrow is short. As this person does not commit himself or herself in the group, it is hard to know where the person stands on issues. At some point in the group’s history, other members may confront him or her with a statement similar to “Hey, you are always asking me how I feel about The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright ©1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer ❚❘ 165
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❚❘ CONDITIONS THAT HINDER EFFEC
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3. Hostility. Hostility may create
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10. Mind wandering. This is a state
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“Feel” statements refer to the
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❚❘ “DON’T YOU THINK THAT .
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The questioner is attempting to eli
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Or the questioner may precede his o
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from the basic aims of human relati
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Activity 6 1. The participants form
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1. No number or array of numbers ca
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REFERENCES Jones, J.E. (1972). Mode
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A DEFINITION OF CLARITY “Getting
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person has his or her own set of pe
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frustrated in his or her efforts to
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Feedback The use of feedback is imp
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13. Use as many channels as necessa
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These modes of response may communi
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A More Effective Approach Problems
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❚❘ KENEPATHY Michele Stimac The
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here-and-now becomes past data that
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there-and-then data that need to be
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REFERENCES Brammer, L. (1973). The
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The second set of symbols with whic
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abstracting process when they are a
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example, if the emphasis is on the
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❚❘ MAKING REQUESTS THROUGH META
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❚❘ NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION AND
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Kinesics Movement of the body (head
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Self-Awareness One technique in thi
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Awareness in Situations Within the
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to deal with power and influence, t
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In training there is ample evidence
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Figure 2. Male and Female Ego State
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■ In co-training, the male traine
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❚❘ COMMUNICATING COMMUNICATION
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5. Use as few words as possible to
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Logical, Lecturing Response. “Don
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❚❘ ANYBODY WITH EYES CAN SEE TH
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5. Data from sense organs, fed into
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INTERPRETATION OF “MR. RAT” It
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❚❘ THE FOUR-COMMUNICATION-STYLE
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Shifting Styles Under Stress Our so
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analyze a complex interpersonal iss
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❚❘ JARGON: REDISCOVERING A POWE
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experiencing the solid, down-to-ear
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the good of “the team.” Similar
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etrievals (Fuld & Buschke, 1976). T
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❚❘ UNDERSTANDING AND IMPROVING
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The fourth and final type of inform
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Figure 1. The Communication Model:
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analysis, it may be found that the
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CONGRUENCY Another important elemen
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❚❘ A PRIMER ON SOCIAL STYLES Be
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Figure 1. The Social-Style Profile
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+ - Figure 2. The DRIVER The Pfeiff
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+ - Figure 4. The AMIABLE The Pfeif
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initiated the feedback could benefi
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Blumberg, H.H. (1972). Communicatio
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❚❘ THE LOST ART OF FEEDBACK Han
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GUIDELINES FOR EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK T
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is appropriate and will be apprecia
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Giving Feedback: “You Can’t Tel
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They offer a logical and effective
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REFERENCE Blanchard, K., & Johnson,
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Consultant (to the client group):
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Consultant (to Member A): “What i
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saying what you wanted to say in th
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explicitly invites and allows the c
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Evaluation If Wheeler continues to
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Lack of time and energy is also a b
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❚❘ ENCOURAGEMENT: GIVING POSITI
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child, should never think that he o
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❚❘ CREATING CONDITIONS THAT ENC
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Table 1. Obstacles to Mentoring Fea
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Similarly, performance appraisal an
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structures and systems in the organ
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enthusiasm. In settings in which em
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opportunity to talk with a third pa
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Table 3 (continued). Structural Int
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The impact of the physical space of
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includes the education and involvem
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necessarily defined over time, step
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Harrison (1970) suggests that an in
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Deal, T.E., & Kennedy, A.A. (1982).
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❚❘ IMPROVING THE USE OF BEHAVIO
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most dependent on coding. A simple
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model. This would prevent objection
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1. Give participants a verbal model
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❚❘ USING MENTORING FOR PROFESSI
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WHY INFORMAL MENTORING AND PERFORMA
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implementation are undertaken after
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■ What skills will we need to imp
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The process of articulating a philo
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In addition, the nine mentors and t
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developed and successful: How will
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❚❘ ATTRIBUTION THEORY: APPLICAT
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Dimensions of Attributions There ar
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and advantageous attributions for f
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Applications in the Managerial Coac
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❚❘ CONFRONTATION: TYPES, CONDIT
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In summary, the purposes and motive
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dismiss the confrontation and me as
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Although creative growth is seldom
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■ The Confidentiality Assumption:
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❚❘ ASSERTION THEORY Colleen Kel
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Nonverbal Behavior Each response st
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sexist remarks, and handling variou
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❚❘ DEALING WITH ANGER John E. J
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DEALING WITH PERSONAL ANGER The obv
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❚❘ CONTRACTING: A PROCESS AND A
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costs, courses of action, methods t
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A third advantage to contracting is
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❚❘ ENCOURAGING OTHERS TO CHANGE
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usiness to intervene, you might mak
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6. If you encounter resistance, shi
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could be created in a package deal.
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A MODEL OF NEGOTIATION Figure 3 sum
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■ Exploratory moves often are pre
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❚❘ THE NUTS AND BOLTS OF ASSERT
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6. Mutuality: accepting another per
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Rights also imply responsibilities
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2. Fogging. “I can see how you mi
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3. Stating a need with a request fo
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We can follow Les, a fictional part
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SUMMARY This article has discussed
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Bloom, L.Z., Coburn, K., & Pearlman
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McCaffery, M. (1983). Personal mark
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❚❘ A POSITIVE APPROACH TO RESIS
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punished, or “sold” on what the
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❚❘ FOUR CULTURAL DIMENSIONS AND
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■ Change occurs by dethroning tho
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Where individualism is high, a thor
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1. The structure of a communication
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of defunct cultures. However, some
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form they take, these sequences des
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present as varied a support for his
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a remote outpost or office location
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the culture of the opponents is mod
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epulsion. Groups become cohesive wh
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Jourard, S.M. (1971). Self-disclosu
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about how to develop and use influe
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produce movement or change. Harriso
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managers were seen as transactional
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consistency in linking newcomers wi
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3. First day at work. The new emplo
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IN CONCLUSION: ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIV
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5. The new employee has lunch with
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❚❘ LEGENDARY CUSTOMER SERVICE A
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These efforts dramatically communic
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FUNDAMENTAL 4: LISTEN The fact that
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Every organization must judge its a
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test their talents, and failing to
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❚❘ HOW TO MAKE NEW-EMPLOYEE ORI
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8. Adult-learning concepts guide th
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST 1 Ins
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST (cont
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❚❘ SEXUAL DIFFERENCES IN THE WO
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may even suppress female-oriented b
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learn to respect and to deal with t
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no female permanent secretaries in
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Hostile environment harassment occu
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instance “hostile” means that t
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■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ ■ To lear
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helpful if the question does not ha
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❚❘ FROM VISION TO ACTION: DETER
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perspective, and she wanted both ma
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Instructions: Rate each of the foll
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❚❘ OPERATIONAL DEFINITIONS: AN
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and end users now define and redefi
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in meaningful ways. Each definition
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uilt on shared expectations and kno
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interpretations of the same or simi
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■ Benchmarking is “. . . the pr
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PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS We usually h
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