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10. Mind wandering. This is a state
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“Feel” statements refer to the
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❚❘ “DON’T YOU THINK THAT .
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The questioner is attempting to eli
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Or the questioner may precede his o
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from the basic aims of human relati
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Activity 6 1. The participants form
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1. No number or array of numbers ca
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REFERENCES Jones, J.E. (1972). Mode
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A DEFINITION OF CLARITY “Getting
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person has his or her own set of pe
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frustrated in his or her efforts to
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Feedback The use of feedback is imp
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13. Use as many channels as necessa
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These modes of response may communi
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A More Effective Approach Problems
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❚❘ KENEPATHY Michele Stimac The
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here-and-now becomes past data that
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there-and-then data that need to be
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REFERENCES Brammer, L. (1973). The
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The second set of symbols with whic
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abstracting process when they are a
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example, if the emphasis is on the
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❚❘ MAKING REQUESTS THROUGH META
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❚❘ NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION AND
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Kinesics Movement of the body (head
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Self-Awareness One technique in thi
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Awareness in Situations Within the
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to deal with power and influence, t
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In training there is ample evidence
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Figure 2. Male and Female Ego State
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■ In co-training, the male traine
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❚❘ COMMUNICATING COMMUNICATION
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5. Use as few words as possible to
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Logical, Lecturing Response. “Don
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❚❘ ANYBODY WITH EYES CAN SEE TH
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5. Data from sense organs, fed into
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INTERPRETATION OF “MR. RAT” It
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Shifting Styles Under Stress Our so
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analyze a complex interpersonal iss
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❚❘ JARGON: REDISCOVERING A POWE
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experiencing the solid, down-to-ear
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the good of “the team.” Similar
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etrievals (Fuld & Buschke, 1976). T
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❚❘ UNDERSTANDING AND IMPROVING
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The fourth and final type of inform
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Figure 1. The Communication Model:
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analysis, it may be found that the
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CONGRUENCY Another important elemen
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❚❘ A PRIMER ON SOCIAL STYLES Be
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Figure 1. The Social-Style Profile
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+ - Figure 2. The DRIVER The Pfeiff
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+ - Figure 4. The AMIABLE The Pfeif
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Figure 6. Shared Behaviors Among So
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Other Analytics Perceive you as tho
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Analyticals* Relate to your imagina
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5. Selection. The social-style appr
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Table 1 (continued). The Many Faces
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❚❘ THE FEELINGS VOCABULARY: A T
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MAD High Medium Low Angry Bitter Bo
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USE OF THE LIST IN HUMAN RESOURCE D
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❚❘ USING PERSONALITY TYPOLOGY T
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perceiving). People with an N (intu
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for the unexpected. He or she remai
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Keirsey and Bates Temperaments The
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The Sensing-Perceiving (SP) Manager
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wants to learn the theory or the co
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REFERENCES AND SUGGESTED READINGS K
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This speaker-centered view of commu
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account the many changes that occur
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Process The second major component
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form negative and adverse feelings
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Negotiation of Selves Using the ter
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Barnlund, D.C. (1970). A transactio
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❚❘ OPENNESS, COLLUSION, AND FEE
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(and the members of the system) to
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The third feedback criterion, takin
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❚❘ THE JOHARI WINDOW: A MODEL F
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may be that if the group knew of my
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Figure 4. Ideal Window and Extreme
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The goal of eliciting feedback and
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Descriptive or Evaluative Feedback
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A Representation of Reality What re
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“Waterfall” Design Although thi
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❚❘ GIVING FEEDBACK: AN INTERPER
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problem lies in reaching some mutua
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ehaviors that manifest low self-est
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sessions, participants may cover ev
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other way could you have given her
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APPENDIX: A FEEDBACK CHECKLIST Rati
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❚❘ INTERPERSONAL FEEDBACK AS CO
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Figure 2. Example of Inferential Pr
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❚❘ MAKING JUDGMENTS DESCRIPTIVE
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performance for you in your job wou
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❚❘ ALTERNATIVE DATA-FEEDBACK DE
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Figure 1. The Data-Collection/Feedb
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4. Hope. Not all of the feelings th
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example, people may feel that worki
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and that the formal work group is t
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The key characteristics of this app
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obviously, involves the degree to w
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members of the system (members of t
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Bowers, D.G., & Franklin, J.L. (197
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often rejected by the recipient; an
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initiated the feedback could benefi
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Blumberg, H.H. (1972). Communicatio
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❚❘ THE LOST ART OF FEEDBACK Han
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GUIDELINES FOR EFFECTIVE FEEDBACK T
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is appropriate and will be apprecia
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Giving Feedback: “You Can’t Tel
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They offer a logical and effective
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REFERENCE Blanchard, K., & Johnson,
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Consultant (to the client group):
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Consultant (to Member A): “What i
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saying what you wanted to say in th
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explicitly invites and allows the c
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Evaluation If Wheeler continues to
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Lack of time and energy is also a b
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❚❘ ENCOURAGEMENT: GIVING POSITI
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(4) affirming the relationship, and
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5. An Effective Change Model for As
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6. Dealing with the Consequences of
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BIBLIOGRAPHY Abbott, P. (1983). The
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Hulbert, J.E. (1982). Ways to be mo
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Straussman, J.D., & Hahn, G.E. (197
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3. Discounting it. This approach in
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he or she can simply ask the resist
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You are invited to compare your own
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Implications of Uncertainty Avoidan
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❚❘ COMMUNICATION PATTERNS IN OR
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In a star pattern (leader-centered)
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family, the community, race and min
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function, such as a store, agency,
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Conflict-Opposition Conflict, the f
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Conflict is universally deprecated,
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“cutthroat” (virtually unregula
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In summary, the opposition-cooperat
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CONCLUSION The schematic configurat
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❚❘ COMPETENCE IN MANAGING LATER
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center. Field centers have great la
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interact on a continual basis (proj
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■ Is the project involved charact
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3. Information irrelevance. Too oft
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2. “Disregard the hazing and rumo
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develop or increase positive studen
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REFERENCES Cascio, W.F. (1986). Man
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for survival. Too often, however, a
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FUNDAMENTAL 3: ENSURE CONTINUAL IMP
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The “Too Much, Too Little” Synd
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esponsible for service; therefore,
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which is critical to the success of
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new employee knows that having coff
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12. Information is provided to the
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST (cont
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ORIENTATION-CONTENT CHECKLIST (cont
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eceive more information about them
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elationships. Gilligan does not say
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In the U.S. Training magazine (Lee,
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U.S. Initiatives The U.S. governmen
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Harassment is defined as any unwelc
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It is becoming more and more obviou
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during the previous stage. In this
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Levinson, D.J. (1978). The seasons
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define strategies that are striking
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Table 1. How Activities Should Be V
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5. Administer the survey throughout
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marketplace also must be considered
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Soft Data Most soft data are subjec
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What Is an Operational Definition?
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8. To recognize and appreciate othe
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5. Use representative work activiti
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work in both areas, and separating
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REFERENCES Bain, D. (1982). The pro