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NONVERBAL <strong>COMMUNICATION</strong> AND THE<br />

INTERCULTURAL ENCOUNTER<br />

Melvin Schnapper<br />

An American nurse is accused by Ethiopian townspeople of treating Ethiopians like<br />

dogs. An American teacher in Nigeria has great trouble getting any discipline in his<br />

class, and it is known that the students have no respect for him because he has shown no<br />

self-respect.<br />

Even though neither American has offended the respective hosts with words, both<br />

of them are unaware of the offenses they have communicated by their nonverbal<br />

behavior. These two examples cite but one aspect of the intercultural encounter. This<br />

occurs whenever people from different cultures meet, be they from different countries or<br />

from different racial or ethnic groups within one country. Whenever such persons<br />

encounter each other, they are apt to miscommunicate because of their different values,<br />

assumptions, perceptions, experiences, language (even if they speak the “same”<br />

language), and nonverbal communication patterns.<br />

Although a great deal of attention has been given to the intercultural encounter, it is<br />

only recently that people in the training field have been given systematic preparation for<br />

the intercultural encounter. One aspect of this encounter that is still neglected in training<br />

is nonverbal communication.<br />

NONVERBAL DIFFERENCES<br />

In the first example, the nurse working at a health center would enter the waiting<br />

room and call for the next patient as she would in the States—by pointing with her<br />

finger to the patient and beckoning the patient to come. This pointing gesture is<br />

acceptable in the States, but in Ethiopia it is for children—and her beckoning signal is<br />

for dogs! In Ethiopia one points to a person by extending the arm and hand and beckons<br />

by holding the hand out, palm down, and closing the hand repeatedly.<br />

In the second example, the teacher insisted that students look him in the eye to<br />

show attentiveness—in a country where prolonged eye contact is considered<br />

disrespectful.<br />

Although the most innocent American/English gesture may have insulting,<br />

embarrassing, or at least confusing connotations in another culture, the converse also is<br />

true. If a South American were to bang on the table and hiss at the waiter for service in a<br />

New York restaurant, that customer would be thrown out. Americans usually feel that<br />

Originally published in The 1975 Annual Handbook for Group Facilitators by John E. Jones and J. William Pfeiffer (Eds.), San Diego,<br />

CA: Pfeiffer & Company.<br />

The Pfeiffer Library Volume 6, 2nd Edition. Copyright © 1998 Jossey-Bass/Pfeiffer ❚❘ 53

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