The Devils Deception by Imam Ibn AL-Jawzi

Chapter Thirteen: The Devil's Deception of Lt!Jpeople
because of the urine of her child while she is able to wash them.
But if she was to leave the house she will adorn herself and even
borrow clothes! She is lax with regards to the $altih.
Maybe she does not know any of the rulings with regards to the
$altih and she will not ask.
Maybe she will uncover that of herself that will cause her $alah to
be invalid and she won't pay it any attention.
Maybe she won't take care with regards to having a miscarriage,
and she doesn't know that if she has a miscarriage (intentionally)
with that which has a soul blown into it, then she has killed a Muslim!
Maybe she will live with her husband in an evil manner, she may
speak to him with that which is pardm and she will say: "This is the
fa ther of my children and that is all that is between us'' and she will leave
the house without his permission and she says: "/ didn't go out to sin"
while she doesn't know that leaving the house without his permission
is a sin in itself!
From them are those whom their husbands call to the bed and
they refuse, thinking that this refusal is not a sin, while she is forbidden
to do so. Allah's Messenger (fi) said: "If the man calls his
woman to the bed and she refuses, and she spends the night while
he is angry with her, the angels curse her until she reaches the
morning."
She will spend carelessly out of the wealth of her husband, and it
is not allowed for her to take anything out of the house except with
his permission, or except if she knows he will be pleased with that.
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