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THE JEWS OF THE VILLAGE OF STAVKE<br />

By Efrayim Lerner<br />

When Efrayim Stavker decided to marry off his<br />

daughter Chaye-Tove, he came to Libivne, talked<br />

it over with the melamed [Hebrew teacher] Avrom-<br />

Moyshe Meshcheches, and they decided on a<br />

shiddach [match]. They did not have to ask the<br />

children themselves, because in those days, over<br />

100 years ago, the decision lay with the parents.<br />

Nor were the bride and groom capable of making<br />

decisions, since the boy and the girl were 13 and<br />

14 years old!<br />

The bride later became my grandmother on<br />

my mother's side. She told me that though they<br />

were not supposed to see each other until the<br />

wedding ceremony, she stealthily peeked from<br />

behind her veil to look at her groom. And she felt<br />

dejected, for he was a small skinny boy from his<br />

constant sitting and learning Torah, while she was<br />

a village beauty, healthy and full of life.<br />

After the wedding, they came to live in the<br />

village. My grandfather was employed in a mill<br />

and used to visit the city quite often.<br />

Stavke had 12-15 Jewish families. Among<br />

them was our family and Hershele Shamays, with<br />

his four families. Some families had settled in<br />

Stavke during World War I. They even had a<br />

melamed whom we nicknamed Itsye Stavke. After<br />

he died, the village brought a teacher from the<br />

outside.<br />

I remember my grandfather when he was a<br />

lessee. He had leased the estate of the village<br />

landlord, including the orchard and the fields,<br />

paying an annual fee. The landlord would stay in<br />

St. Petersburg, seldom coming to the village.<br />

I remember the wedding of grandfather's<br />

youngest daughter, Rayntse, which was celebrated<br />

in the landlord's manor. My father had hired the<br />

band of Libivne musicians led by Yakov Hersh<br />

129<br />

Klezmer. With them was old Pesach with the<br />

white beard, which was in harmony with his<br />

black clarinet.<br />

During World War I, all my grandfather's<br />

children lived in the village.<br />

By then I was already a grown-up fellow. My<br />

cousins and I used to go to the neighboring<br />

village, Ovlotchim, to buy fish. I remember some<br />

of the names of the Jews of that village: R. Ovadye<br />

der Krumer [the lame], who was head of the<br />

kehila; Moyshe der royber [the robber], who used<br />

to tell jokes, being somewhat of a wedding entertainer.<br />

R. Ovadye der Krumer would arrange a minyan<br />

[quorum of ten Jews needed for certain<br />

prayer services] at his house on the Sabbath and<br />

conduct services. Lending his home for holiday<br />

services too, he acted both as cantor and reader of<br />

the Torah.<br />

The village of Ladin was about a mile from<br />

Stavke. Moyshe Ladiner lived there with his<br />

family and made a living from his mill, which<br />

pressed oil from seeds. On the High Holy Days<br />

and during Sukkot, his family used to pray with<br />

my grandfather's minyan.<br />

A kosher slaughterer would come to us on<br />

Thursdays from the neighboring town of Masheve,<br />

walking from village to village. I always wondered<br />

how he had the strength to walk so far on<br />

foot while carrying a heavy sack with his<br />

slaughterer's knives, as well as several cuts of<br />

meat he had received as a supplement to his<br />

payment for slaughtering.<br />

During World War I, the Jewish people would<br />

hire a young man to teach village children to read<br />

and write Yiddish. It happened that my grandfather,<br />

passing by, heard the teacher explain to the

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