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56 LUBOML<br />

eral weeks. Village boys would stay in town in<br />

Jewish homes, for a small fee, mostly in the Tea<br />

Inn, and every morning they gathered around the<br />

draft boardthe Prisudstva on Polish Street, and<br />

waited their turn.<br />

Out of boredom the recruits from the villagesbig,<br />

brawny fellowswould get drunk,<br />

in spite of the ban against selling liquor during<br />

these few weeks, and they would start some<br />

mischief in the marketplace. They started harassing<br />

the passing Jews and often fistfights broke<br />

out in which the villagers actually received most<br />

of the blows from the hardy city fellows, who<br />

gave it back to them many times over.<br />

The best of our lads were Yehosua Shayndl<br />

Ran es, Avromele Moyshe Avrams (called<br />

"Mazik"), and Itzik "the devil" Komtches.<br />

Our victories were even greater when among<br />

the recruits there were Jewish boys from Odessa,<br />

who for some reason were listed as having been<br />

born in our town and therefore had to come here<br />

to register. These fellows were really agile at<br />

striking blows, and the non-Jewish recruits left<br />

the arena pretty battered.<br />

A Purpose: "Tachlis"<br />

With a boy's release from conscription or at the<br />

end of military service, the parents started to<br />

worry again, and this time about "a purp ose"<br />

meaning marriage and a job. Almost all matches<br />

were the work of a professional matchmaker or<br />

members of the family. Sometimes matches were<br />

made within the courts of the rebbes, where many<br />

Chasidim met, and there acquaintances were<br />

arranged under the tutelage and with the blessing<br />

of the rebbe.<br />

Before a prospective bride was brought to<br />

meet the prospective groom, the mother of the<br />

groom would go, or would travel accompanied by<br />

an experienced aunt, to see what the bride was<br />

like. And, in turn, the father of the bride would go<br />

to meet the groom, see what he was like, and how<br />

proficient he was in the Talmud and commentary.<br />

Whoever wanted to have a Torah scholar for a<br />

son-in-law had to promise, in addition to the<br />

dowry, a stipend for his livelihood (kest) , including<br />

food and other expenses, for a number of years<br />

and perhaps also a partnership in business.<br />

As was the custom in those days, it took some<br />

time until a match was concluded. From that<br />

point on, preparation began for the wedding,<br />

which also often took many months. Most weddings<br />

in our town took place in the summer, and<br />

the preparations were vast: sewing new clothes,<br />

preparing a place for the newlyweds to live,<br />

sending personal invitations to family members<br />

and many friends, hiring the musicians (klezmer),<br />

the wedding entertainer (badchan), etc.<br />

Almost without exception, the chuppah [wedding<br />

canopy] was put next to the Great Synagogue<br />

on the southern side, the side with the entry to the<br />

polish [anteroom]. There was a famous musical<br />

group in the city at that time made up of the head<br />

of the family and its musical leader (on violin) R.<br />

Yakov Hersh Klezmer and his three sons: Arele,<br />

who played the flute; Sender, the trumpet; and<br />

Yossele, the drums; and also Nyusi (a member of<br />

the family), who played the flute.<br />

Menashe "Badchan," the entertainer, was<br />

like a fountain pouring forth folk sayings. He was<br />

great at rhyming. At will he could bring the<br />

audience to tears or he could raise them to a level<br />

of ongoing laughter.<br />

The matter of a place to live was solved fairly<br />

easily: Inside [the home of the groom's parents]<br />

there was a little alcove (alker), or they would<br />

build a small room onto the father-in-law's house<br />

and everyone tried to manage as best they could.<br />

They were under the same roof with the parents<br />

and were in business together, tooone big family<br />

commune.<br />

The Marketplace and the Fair<br />

Most important occasions in the life of the town<br />

centered on the marketplace. All news went out<br />

from it and all information came back to it.<br />

In many ways the marketplace was also the<br />

place for entertainment and enjoyment. Official<br />

celebrations and meetings took place there, the<br />

mounted police held their exercises there, waving<br />

their bayonets and swords while riding their horses;<br />

the army, passing through on the way to summer<br />

maneuvers, would bivouac there; and a visiting<br />

circus would also set up its tent there.<br />

On fair days, the marketplace was so crowded<br />

that passage was almost impossible, even for

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