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56 LUBOML<br />
eral weeks. Village boys would stay in town in<br />
Jewish homes, for a small fee, mostly in the Tea<br />
Inn, and every morning they gathered around the<br />
draft boardthe Prisudstva on Polish Street, and<br />
waited their turn.<br />
Out of boredom the recruits from the villagesbig,<br />
brawny fellowswould get drunk,<br />
in spite of the ban against selling liquor during<br />
these few weeks, and they would start some<br />
mischief in the marketplace. They started harassing<br />
the passing Jews and often fistfights broke<br />
out in which the villagers actually received most<br />
of the blows from the hardy city fellows, who<br />
gave it back to them many times over.<br />
The best of our lads were Yehosua Shayndl<br />
Ran es, Avromele Moyshe Avrams (called<br />
"Mazik"), and Itzik "the devil" Komtches.<br />
Our victories were even greater when among<br />
the recruits there were Jewish boys from Odessa,<br />
who for some reason were listed as having been<br />
born in our town and therefore had to come here<br />
to register. These fellows were really agile at<br />
striking blows, and the non-Jewish recruits left<br />
the arena pretty battered.<br />
A Purpose: "Tachlis"<br />
With a boy's release from conscription or at the<br />
end of military service, the parents started to<br />
worry again, and this time about "a purp ose"<br />
meaning marriage and a job. Almost all matches<br />
were the work of a professional matchmaker or<br />
members of the family. Sometimes matches were<br />
made within the courts of the rebbes, where many<br />
Chasidim met, and there acquaintances were<br />
arranged under the tutelage and with the blessing<br />
of the rebbe.<br />
Before a prospective bride was brought to<br />
meet the prospective groom, the mother of the<br />
groom would go, or would travel accompanied by<br />
an experienced aunt, to see what the bride was<br />
like. And, in turn, the father of the bride would go<br />
to meet the groom, see what he was like, and how<br />
proficient he was in the Talmud and commentary.<br />
Whoever wanted to have a Torah scholar for a<br />
son-in-law had to promise, in addition to the<br />
dowry, a stipend for his livelihood (kest) , including<br />
food and other expenses, for a number of years<br />
and perhaps also a partnership in business.<br />
As was the custom in those days, it took some<br />
time until a match was concluded. From that<br />
point on, preparation began for the wedding,<br />
which also often took many months. Most weddings<br />
in our town took place in the summer, and<br />
the preparations were vast: sewing new clothes,<br />
preparing a place for the newlyweds to live,<br />
sending personal invitations to family members<br />
and many friends, hiring the musicians (klezmer),<br />
the wedding entertainer (badchan), etc.<br />
Almost without exception, the chuppah [wedding<br />
canopy] was put next to the Great Synagogue<br />
on the southern side, the side with the entry to the<br />
polish [anteroom]. There was a famous musical<br />
group in the city at that time made up of the head<br />
of the family and its musical leader (on violin) R.<br />
Yakov Hersh Klezmer and his three sons: Arele,<br />
who played the flute; Sender, the trumpet; and<br />
Yossele, the drums; and also Nyusi (a member of<br />
the family), who played the flute.<br />
Menashe "Badchan," the entertainer, was<br />
like a fountain pouring forth folk sayings. He was<br />
great at rhyming. At will he could bring the<br />
audience to tears or he could raise them to a level<br />
of ongoing laughter.<br />
The matter of a place to live was solved fairly<br />
easily: Inside [the home of the groom's parents]<br />
there was a little alcove (alker), or they would<br />
build a small room onto the father-in-law's house<br />
and everyone tried to manage as best they could.<br />
They were under the same roof with the parents<br />
and were in business together, tooone big family<br />
commune.<br />
The Marketplace and the Fair<br />
Most important occasions in the life of the town<br />
centered on the marketplace. All news went out<br />
from it and all information came back to it.<br />
In many ways the marketplace was also the<br />
place for entertainment and enjoyment. Official<br />
celebrations and meetings took place there, the<br />
mounted police held their exercises there, waving<br />
their bayonets and swords while riding their horses;<br />
the army, passing through on the way to summer<br />
maneuvers, would bivouac there; and a visiting<br />
circus would also set up its tent there.<br />
On fair days, the marketplace was so crowded<br />
that passage was almost impossible, even for